How To Encourage Yourself

Do you want to be successful?

You’ve got to learn how to encourage yourself.

Because there are days when you won’t receive any encouragement from anyone else, you’ve got to do it yourself.

There’s this one passage in the Bible that I love so much. It says, David encouraged himself in the Lord. (1 Samuel 30:6)

Let me tell you the Bible story behind this verse.

David and his men—600 of them—went away to work and left their wives and children in their camp called Ziklag. Three days later, tragedy struck. The Amalekites, sworn enemies of Israel, attacked and burned the entire village to the ground—and taking all the women and children with them as slaves.

When David and his men arrived, the Bible says his men “wept until they could weep no more.” Can you imagine 600 men crying at the loss of their wives and children? Can you imagine 600 men weeping over a pile of burning rubble that was once their home?

You think that was bad? It got worse. The Bible says that these men—once upon a time fiercely loyal to David—wanted now to stone David to death. 

I’ve noticed that when things go wrong, human beings want to look for someone to blame. We always want to look for a scapegoat to vent our rage.

Imagine you were David.

You just lost your family. Your kids were taken away from you. Your home is now but ashes under your feet. You now own nothing except the clothes that you’re wearing. And the friends that you thought were friends now want to kill you. 

This is what you call an Impossible situation. 

In other words, it’s a Ziklag…

Are You Going Through A Ziklag?

Are you going through an Impossible situation?

Then you’re going through Ziklag right now. 

Perhaps you lost your job.  Perhaps you lost your possessions. Perhaps you lost your friends. Perhaps you lost a loved one. 

In Ziklag, you have a choice: You can do what the 600 soldiers of David did or you can do what David did.

The 600 men wept and found someone to blame. (Because hurt people hurt people.)

But I love what David did. In the midst of an impossible situation, he did the impossible. What was that? The Bible said, “David encouraged himself in the Lord.”

Let me explain what that meant…

Getting Encouragement From Within

Normally, we get encouragement from people around us. 

And rightly so. Because we’re the Body of Christ.

When I feel burdened, the first person I go to is my best friend—who happens to be my wife Marowe.  She’s not a preacher. If given a choice not to shop for a year—or to speak in public—she’d choose not to shop for a year. (Okay, maybe one week…) But she’s my encourager. She’s the builder of my faith. When I tell her my burdens, she doesn’t even say anything. She just listens—and I feel my burdens are lifted up from my shoulders.

And I’m spoiled. God gave me the most fantastic friends on planet earth.  They’re my Super Friends, my Avengers Team. When I’m going through my struggles, I share it with them—and when I do—I don’t feel alone anymore.

But I believe there are times when we go through Ziklag. Ziklag is a place where even the family and friends that we depend on aren’t there. Perhaps because they’re busy. Or because they’re faraway. Or because they themselves are going through some struggle—and they’re not there for us.

And that’s where you have to learn how to go to God directly.

Ziklag is the place where your relationship with God goes to a whole new level.

Ziklag Is A Furnace…

Let me warn you…

Ziklag is a burial place and a birthplace. It’s where boys are buried and kings are born.

Ziklag is a furnace. If you are made of wood, you will be pulverized. If you are made of gold, you will be purified.

Ziklag is a rock. You can be crushed under the weight of the rock or you can stand on top of the height of the rock—and see the world in a whole new perspective.

Ziklag is a sword. It can kill or it can cut. It can kill your soul or it can cut the cancer in your soul.

In Ziklag, David had to learn a very important life skill, a life skill you need to win permanent victory: You need to learn how to encourage yourself in the Lord. Do not wait for others to encourage you. Do not wait for your spouse to encourage you. Do not wait for your friends to encourage you. Do not wait for your leaders to encourage you. You need to learn how to encourage yourself in the Lord.

How To Encourage Yourself

       I don’t know what David did specifically. The Bible doesn’t say what he did. 

But I have a guess.

Because I’ve been through Ziklag many times. And I know how I encouraged myself. 

I believe David went back into his own history to remember those special times when he saw God intervene in his life. Like when God rescued him from the bear and the lion. Or when God rescued him from Goliath with a stone and a slingshot.

       I have those special stories too. I dig deep and remember them….

       Like the day God called me to preach when I was twelve…

       Or the day God rescued me from my addictions…

       I even remember the small miracles in my life.

       Let me tell you one of them…

Recall God’s Interventions

       Twenty-five years ago, I attended a graduation ceremony in PICC. Not as a preacher but as a photographer. My cousin was graduating and I volunteered to take his pictures. To do that, I borrowed a friend’s expensive camera, complete with a long lens that the paparazzi use. I went up in the balcony and took lots of photos.

       It was a long graduation ceremony.

By the time it was over, it was evening.

After the ceremony, I congratulated my cousin and walked back to my borrowed car. (Borrowed camera, borrowed car… You get the picture how poor I was then?) But when I rode the car, I noticed that my bag was light. I looked inside it. To my horror, I saw that the long lens was gone!

       I knew that long lens was expensive—more expensive than the camera itself. And I was a poor missionary. I stepped out of the car and looked back at gigantic PICC. Where will I look?

       I remember praying, “Oh God, you’ve got to help me!” Immediately, I felt peace. I knew God was in charge.

       I walked back to the building, taking a shortcut through the grass. Picture this: I was walking on grass in the dark. And that was when I felt an inner nudge to stop walking. 

       And I did. At that exact spot, I felt the same nudge to bend over and reach down. In that darkness, I stooped down and held something round. I lifted it up—it was the camera lens!

       The grounds of PICC are massive and covered with darkness. It was literally like finding a pin in a haystack.

I remember that day and tell myself, “If God guides me for a something as small as a camera lens, I believe God will guide me for the bigger things in my life.”

God allows Mt. Tabor experiences in our lives to ready us for Mt. Calvary experiences. In Mt. Tabor, Jesus showed Himself with brilliant light beside Moses and Elijah to Peter, James, and John—because he knew that in a few days, they’ll experience the horrific sight of him hanging on a criminal’s cross. When they start doubting, “Did I follow the wrong guy?” they can look back that once upon a time, they saw a glorious Jesus.

Which reminds me of a very important point in the story of David and Ziklag…

God Will Return What Was Stolen From You

David wasn’t only seeking for Encouragement. He was also seeking for Enlightenment. He asked God, “Can I pursue the Amalekites? Can I overtake them?”

God told David, “Pursue the Amalekites. You shall be able to overtake them.” So David rallied his men and they chased after the Amalekites. They found them in the middle of a party, drunk and distracted. They attacked them, defeated them, and took back their wives and children. They also brought home the spoils of war—the wealth of their enemy.

When you experience loss, I believe that if you “encourage yourself in the Lord”, you’ll experience what David experienced: God returned to him what was stolen—plus interest!

What kind of interest? The Old Testament says that the thief, once caught, should return seven times what he has stolen. (Proverbs 6:30-31) 

Have you lost anything? 

Whenever I lose money in business, I ask God to return it to me sevenfold. It happens.

If you go to the courthouse of men, they may punish the thief and ask him to return what he has stolen. But if you go to the courthouse of God, claim in faith that God Himself will see to it that what was stolen from you shall be returned sevenfold.

Perhaps you’ve lost a loved one. Perhaps a parent just passed away. Perhaps you experienced a miscarriage. And there’s a deep wound in your heart. Believe me, God will not only return this person to you sevenfold, but eternal-fold. Be patient. In Heaven, you’ll be reunited with your loved one forever and ever and ever…

       Learn to encourage yourself in the Lord.

       May your dreams come true,

       Bo Sanchez

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85 Responses to “How To Encourage Yourself”

  1. Big Thanks for sharing this Bro. Bo! I got to remind myself from now on whenever i’m down - encourage myself in the LORD!
    May you keep on inspiring and informing us.
    More power!
    GODBLESS us all! “,)

  2. I’m not a religious person. However, I do believe that there really are times when something un-explainable happens- something you can’t account for yourself. It happened to me just when I was about to give up on graduating…

    HAHAHA but anyway I think your blog, Sir Bo, is very inspiring and “spiritually-enriching” without sounding self righteous. Thank you for your updates!

  3. Thank you for the encouragement brother Bo!

  4. Thank you for this wonderful message! :-)
    Exactly what I needed.

  5. Good morning Brother Bo! Thank you for this wonderful message..Everytime you have new blogs, it would really enliven my soul. But there are moments when I felt down and words are not enought to encourage me especially that at this moment in my life I am going through a Ziklag.. I know Father God will take care of everything…. I just have to be patient! God bless you and your loved ones Bo… :)

  6. Thank you Bo! I need this one. I know God will help me in this turbulent time we are experiencing. God Bless!

  7. Thank you Bro. Bo for this very inspiring morning message. It reminds that when things go wrong, I should always call my help line, God, immediately.

    More power to you!

  8. Dear Bro. Bo,
    This message is very timely for me. Thanks. God bless.

  9. Thanks Bro. Bo for this another inspiring article. This is what I always look for to start my week.. :)

  10. I appreciate how you are not the typical preacher, Bro. Bo. You make so much sense even to people who don’t believe. Your articles and teachings complement my Buddhism-like approach to life, and I think that’s actually awesome. Keep doing what you do! :)

  11. just to say a simple thank you for an inspiring article. just like bro. bo - an equally simple & inspiring man. God bless you & your family!

  12. This is a serious topic for me. I don’t want to blame anyone anymore. I am accountable and responsible for my own successes and for my own failures.

  13. Amen and Amen! I will not only put this message into my heart but will share this to my friends as well!

    In God I find eternal joy :D

  14. I feel so very blessed today with this awesome article. What a great gift for my Birthday! :) Thank you, Father. Thank you, Bro. Bo,

  15. I am so thankful to the Lord that I am one of the blessed persons who are receiving inspiring messages & stories from you, Bro. Bo. Many times you really have saved me from getting so desperate over situation sometimes I don’t understand why it’s gonna happen to me & my family, but listening to you through your preaching, especially on Sundays, after hearing a TV Healing Mass, and reading all your sent Soulfood Email to me, these ways are really helping me uplift my Spirit, thus, seek God first for any untoward turbulent times in my life and to thank and praise Him always for all the many wonderful blessings received and be receiving always to be shared by each one in the family. God is really good to us that He sent someone, like you, to share God’s wisdom and knowledge to be instilled in us, for our guidance in living life in accordance to His will. You are such an Amazing gifted person, Bro Bo. I am wishing and praying that God will always send people,like you, to continue to preach the good news of the Lord Almighty, and so PEACE will always be upon all the people on Earth. To God be the glory always! And thanks so much to you for your messages of encouragement. There’ll be no more reasons to worry and be stressed out of so many unfavorable things happening to our lives in all our journey till the end! You are around, and so we are blessed people, to be able to listen to your preaching! So wonderful, so awesome, Bro. Bo. Glory to God in the Highest!

  16. Thank you Bro. Bo for the inspiring message.

  17. Thank you Bo for another soulfood, It is very timely cause I fell so down today, I can’t explain why. I can’t tell it to anyone cause today I feel that I’m alone and empty. But after reading your very inspiring article….. I should now encourage my self with the LORD. You’re really right Bo, I should remember the small miracles in my life to be my strength today. I will remember the times when God rescued me from all my struggles and loneliness . Dios Mabalos sayo Bo!

  18. Hi Bo,
    This is all what we need as we are about to start a whole new week here at work.
    Thank you and God bless.

  19. Amen.
    thanks Bro Bo for your encouragement

  20. Bro.Bo, this article is so comforting, brilliantly written. :) thank you so very much. Well, i look forward to seeing you in person someday. I just love your sense of humor and the way you write articles. You have biblical passages but written in a simple way for the majority to fully understand it. We need more like you in our midst, Atenista ka nga talaga.:) thanks and God bless….

  21. Thanks again Bro.Bo for this wonderful message,God Bless..

  22. Thank you Bro. Bo for such an uplifting article you’ve shared…

    God bless you.

  23. Dear Bro, Bo.,

    Thank you for the very inspiring message.

    Presently, I am on the shoes of David now and I will do what he did. I will inspire and encourage myself through the guidance from God.

    God Bless always.

  24. All i can say Bo, “THANK YOU SO MUCH! U HIT THE TARGET FOR ME TODAY! GODBLESS U MORE!” PRAISE GOD ALLELUIA!

  25. Feels like this is heaven sent. =)

  26. Thank you Bro Bo for another brilliant article. More power and God bless!!!

  27. Many thanks, brother Bo for choosing to be God’s channel. This feels very much like God’s personal message for me. God bless you more!!

  28. You may cross the barren Desert .

    That`s where a boy becomes a Man .

    Learning self reliance and how much we depend on God .

    Bro. Bo , you have amazing commumication skills Bless you and thank you for all the good hard work you do . Kind regards , Billy ,

  29. I thank God that this Monday is happened to be my birthday, and your article is answering my greatest doubt right to the point. I felt reading it like opening God’s gift to me.
    Thank you, Bo! God bless.. :)

  30. Thank you bro Bo.

    Once again I am uplifted by your God-sent message. I can’t help my cried and cried knowing that the job that I had lost will return to me sevenfold. Amen

    Thank you for your encouragement.

  31. Very uplifting, just what I need now. Thanks Bro. Bo.

  32. Whenever I’m hungry and I don’t have money to buy food bcoz wala pang sweldo,,this is when I encourage my self na I am now starting my diet,,hehehehe

  33. Dear Bo,

    13 years ago we lost home, now I know after 13 years, God will give it back to us. Deep in my heart I trust HIM that he will
    this time.
    Thank you so much for this article, this is just in time.
    You really are, a blessing to all of us.

    More Power and GOD BLESS US ALL!

  34. THANK YOU BRO BO!

    I LOVE U! I LOVE GOD! I LOVE EVERYONE!

  35. Really words of encouragement;) thank you bo

  36. You have always been an inspiration. I thank God for the great gift He has in you. May the Lord bless you even more

  37. Thank you Bro. Bo. Inspiring indeed! God bless you always.

  38. thanks Bro.Bo for the wonderful message. this would help me in my symposium. I’ve been searching for additional info, in God’s will,i found this

  39. Thank you for the encourgement Bro. Bo….another inspiring message from you. God bless!!!

  40. I always felt bliss & delighted every Monday after reading Br. Bo’s message. You’re my preacher, encourager and blessings to receive your inspiring article every week.
    Thank you & Godbless us all!!!!

  41. Another eye opener…not just in our faith but in our character also. Thank you so much. You are a blessing…

  42. i don’t know how to go about it?
    but im happy to read your article…

  43. “Perhaps you’ve lost a loved one. Perhaps a parent just passed away. Perhaps you experienced a miscarriage. And there’s a deep wound in your heart.”…..this is exactly me, I’m going through Ziklag. But thank you for your inspirational words and for reminding me to encourage myself once again. Hope that this too shall pass… God bless us all!

  44. Thanks God that he send you to us. Life is difficult to understand and thanks for the article that’s inspire me not to give up my dream for God has ways to make impossible to be possible.

  45. Thank you Bro. Bo for your inspiring messages! Am always healed through them

  46. Thank you, brother Bo. Your insights enable me to understand the Bible better. God bless you.

  47. Thanks a lot Bo! I am having Ziklag and your article gave me the encouragement to claim what i lost sevenfold.
    God bless you and family!!!

  48. Thanks Bro. Bo sana marami ka pang ma Inspire na tulad ko idol tlaga kita Bro Bo

  49. Bro Bo is really an inspiration…!

    Hope he will also continue his HEALTH / Natural medicine Newsletter to inspire people to live a healthier life!

  50. I’m the avid reader of kerygma since 1996 up to this time and also avid reader of your books. Our whole family read it. Thank you very much BO for sharing with us what you know. God bless you and your family!!

  51. Very inspiring , thank you for another nice story.

  52. your article is a blessing to me..thank you so much.God Bless!!

  53. Bro. Bo,
    I have been reading your weekly soulfood. Most of the time, I agree with what you said, but on this article I would have to say it’s very difficult to stay positive when everything in my life is one tragedy after another….

    Its always easier to preach but to actually walk the talk is another but I am appreciate your good intentions.

    God has been so good to you.

  54. Thank you so much Bro. Bo!
    This is exactly what I need right now.
    More power!

  55. Truly, nobody will encourage you, but yourself with the Lord. Thank you. Just in time, that I need some Enlightenment.
    God bless us all. :)

  56. Thank you. This is exactly what I need right now. Great post, Bro. Bo. Thanks for sharing.

  57. Thank God for you Bro Bo! Praise the Lord for using you mightily to inspire, motivate, and encourage all of us reading your Soulfood.. You are really awesome! You are so anointed! Praise the Lord! Keep it up Bro Bo! God is always smiling and clapping for you. Continue to give glory to His name.

  58. For so many times that I have experience God’s infinite mercy for me, I’m so thankful with my whole life and I can’t ever imagine what’s life without HIM, GOD alone is truly ENOUGH!

  59. THANKS A LOT BRO….GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY…

  60. Needed this inspiration right now.
    Just in time.
    Thanks Bro. Bo. God bless always!

  61. Bro Bo,

    Hope many will be enlightened by your passages and experiences with the Lord as I am. Thank you Lord for the gift of Bro Bo.

  62. perfect timing :) my spirit wa lifted up ♥
    you’re the BEST Bro. BO!

  63. Thank you Bo! To God be the glory! Amen.

  64. Praise you Lord Jesus!
    Bro . Bo, thank you for sharing this. Just an hour ago, i asked for God’s message for me because i feel so helpless. At first i thought im just hungry & i ate yet still feel empty. Thankful that the spirit tells me to check my mail and i see this post of yours. I don’t have any problems with my loveones, its just an empty me and after reading this, the flame start to burn again. I have so many reasons to be thankful for this life.

    Bless u more, Bro.
    A

  65. reading your story about losing the camera lens,remind me of what happened several years ago.i went to the grocery store one time,about a mile and a half from my house,it was raining.i came home w/ the grocery but when i’m about to pick up my purse,it was not there.and i remember that while pushing my carts i put my purse in the shopping cart.so i have to drive back in a hurry to the grocery parking lot where i parked the cart.i was praying earnestly while driving.i had my license,my credit cards,even my passport in my purse..and i remember feeling of amazement when i saw something red in a shopping cart when i get to the parking lot..i might have left my purse in there for about 15 minutes..i was thankful w/ the rain too,that helped…i can’t stop thanking God…

  66. Thanks Bro. Bo,for the another inspiring blog this week…yah God is always there to encourage me…it really works to me especially in my everyday struggles. I still stand and keep on moving inspite of all trials. God is with me who strenghten me…God Bless to your whole family.We love you!

  67. Gd am Bro. Bo.
    thank you so much for this inspiring article. I, myself is in a ziklag now and I didn’t know that I could try to encourage myself in the LORD. I have been feeling desperate and trying to find somebody that I could pour my heart out, somebody who could help me out of the situation I am in. I am looking for outside solutions to my problem. I stopped remembering my GOD. This article reminded me of HIM. I remembered now that in the many difficult situations I have gone through, I always, always ran to HIM and HE never failed me. I FORGOT about that.
    Once again, thank you very much!

  68. your articles always connect on what I’m experiencing right now. thank you:))

  69. thanks bro bo for this timely post. i am now in a ziklag and this is very helpful in what i am going thru right now. i also see this as God’s answers to my prayers. may God bless us always!

  70. Thank you brother Bo for such an inspiring message. It is perfect for the moment. Your word that God doesn’t just return what was stolen but with the interest made me laugh. With all my heart i believe so. I trust Him. He is a magnificent and faithful God. Warm regards and more blessings to you and your family and missions.

  71. Thanks for this wonderful message, Bro. Bo. It is really encouraging.

    God bless you.

  72. Brother Bo,
    Thank you very much for the reminder…God bless..

  73. thank you! I really need this right now. God bless you Bro Bo!

  74. Thanks Bro. Bo! Just the courage that we need when we are discouraged. God bless

  75. inspiring article! thank you!

  76. Thank you so much Bro. Bo for your inspiring article. The articles I read have connection to what I am undergoing right now. You are God sent to uplift me.

  77. had to go through several heartbreaks.. found myself so many times in ziklag… and finally… God gave me the best this time, much more than what I’ve expected! there goes the interest! :) my happiness was indeed multiplied 7 times over! i could not be happier. all because never have i doubted Him in all his ways. ALL. because all the time God is good. we’ve all been hurt badly, but trust that God has the best in store for us, we just have to hold on to Him and keep on moving in faith. as i walk through the valley of the shadow of death, i shall fear no evil, for you are with me!

  78. Thank you bro.bo…youre such a blessing to us…God bless u and ur whole family

  79. I am truly blessed in reading this. Thank you so much Lord!

  80. I”m happy when i visiting to your site, because of your wonderful message. Thanks Bro. Bo.

    god bless.

  81. Thank you Bo. ☺

    Just what I needed to hear to lift up my weary heart.
    God’s words and the story you shared is the Greatest Food for the Soul. ☺.

    God Bless Us More.

  82. Many thanks Bro, Bo

    Thank you sooooooo much! You just don’t know how inspired I am reading this article….
    May the Good Lord Bless you with good health and lots of love so that you can continue inspiring others just as you did to me…

    Love lots!

  83. Salamat ng marami Bro. Bo…. Right now i experiencing Gods blessing. Surely he is a provider.

  84. Bro Bo! I would Like to ask permission to print this article. Because i would like to Help a great friend of mine who is currently Facing Many problems. I was hoping to use this article to help him. I will Pray For you. As well as For Him. :D God Bless! Bro Bo! Thank You!!

  85. Thank you for touching the lives of people including mine. Keep it up! God bless:)

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