You have lies in your mind.

These lies have stolen much of your joy and blessings.

Here’s the problem: You don’t know they’re lies.

My friend priest told me this hilarious story.

       One day, a priest saw a group of kids surrounding a dog.

       Curious, he came over and asked, “What are you doing?”

       One kid said, “Father, we’re arguing as to who would own this stray dog. We all want him. So we decided that the one who can say the biggest lie would take home the dog.”

       The priest shook his head and said, “That’s wrong! Do you know that lying is bad? It’s against the commandments of God. Do you know that when I was your age, I never told a single lie?”

       For a moment, there was silence. All the kids looked very sad. The priest was happy. He felt his message hit home.

Finally, the smallest boy said, “Okay, no one can beat that. Give him the dog.”

The First Lie I Ever Told

       I remember the first lies I ever said.

I was in Grade 3.

One day, I opened the classroom door, not knowing my classmate was right behind it. The door hit his forehead, and blood flowed down his face, all the way to his white polo uniform. He looked like a victim in a horror movie.

       That was when my teacher arrived on the scene. And she screamed, “Who did this?”

       There I was, still holding the door knob, and with a shaking voice, said, “Not me!”

       I remember how terrible I felt that day.

       If you ever told a lie before, you know the feeling.

Suddenly, you don’t feel at peace. (Obviously, I’m disqualifying chronic liars. They’ve deadened their conscience and feel nothing.)

Let me tell you why we lose our peace. 

Because God is truth. And when we speak untruth, we move away from God. You move away from the one who said, “Peace be with you.”

       Lying isn’t worth it. 

Inner peace leaves you.

And your relationships are affected. Because relationships are based on trust—which is based on truth. More so, you can’t even have a great relationship with yourself because you lose respect for yourself.

       But let me talk about a different kind of lying.

When We Lie To Ourselves

One day, I was preaching about the power of our words.

I asked my audience to say out loud, “I’m beautiful!” We laughed and had so much fun.

After the talk, I saw a young woman waiting for me at the foot of the stage.

I noticed that physically, she was stunningly beautiful.

She had lovely eyes, but when I looked at them, I sensed deep sadness.

She asked me, “Brother Bo, if one says, ‘I’m beautiful’,but she feels ugly, isn’t she lying?”

I already knew she was talking about herself. I asked, “Why do you think you’re ugly?”

She told me her story. When she was a little child, her father would tell her, “Dorothy, you’re ugly.” And he’d laugh the meanest laugh. He’d tease her again and again. Most of the time, he was drunk when he did this. And she said, “Ever since, I’ve always felt ugly. You were telling us on stage to say, ‘I’m beautiful’! I couldn’t say it. I felt I’d be lying…”

I asked her, “Define lying.”

“When I say something that’s not true.”

“We’ve got a problem here. There are three persons involved. You, your father, and God. You say you’re ugly. Your father said you were ugly.  But today, I announce to you that God says you’re beautiful.  Who is telling the truth? You, your father, or God? Out of these three persons, only one of you claimed, ‘I Am The Truth.’”

She began to break down.

She said, “Bo, you don’t know what kind of life I’m living now. I live an ugly life. I’ve had 7 boyfriends, some of them married men. I’ve given away my body to all 7 of them and I feel so dirty. I am ugly.”

I knew what happened to Dorothy. 

Words have power. And she allowed the words of her father to create ugliness in her life. She was jumping from one lover to another, searching for someone to tell her that she was beautiful.

I said, “Dorothy, God says you’re beautiful. Because He doesn’t look at your mistakes. He doesn’t look at your past. He only looks at the original beauty He created in you from the very beginning. And He also looks at the glorious beauty of your future.”

I have this habit of praying for people on the spot. I prayed for God’s healing on her life. I said, “Lord, dethrone this cruel lie in her mind.”

The next time I saw Dorothy, she was a different person. 

She was free from all her bad relationships. She was serving God in her prayer group. And her eyes no longer had sadness. I saw happiness in them. And yes, she was indeed beautiful.

Stop The Lies

You may be like Dorothy today.

You feel you’ve made mistakes in the past. And you believe you’re a bad person. Or you failed in your school or job or family—and feel that you’re a failure.

But I speak words of truth to you: God says you’re not a bad person. God says you’re not a failure. Sure you’ve made mistakes. But those mistakes don’t define you. God says you’re very good, made in His image. God says there’s a champion in you.

Dethrone the lies in your mind.

Listen to what God is saying instead.

My friend George Gabriel told me that in Facebook and other social networks, there’s such a thing as “Status”. Most often, he sees people type in negative words like, “I feel lazy today,” and “I’m depressed,” and “I’m broke.” He says that these negative words are typed in the internet forever.

Hey, it’s good that we’re being emotionally honest. That’s important. Don’t deny what you feel. But I think we shouldn’t stop at emotional honesty. I think we should also proclaim the truth.

If you feel sick, don’t just say, “I don’t feel well.” Say, “I don’t feel well but this is temporary. Health and healing are flowing into my body.”

If you don’t have money today, don’t say, “I’m poor.” Say, “I’m temporarily broke. Abundance is coming my way.”

If you had a relationship that didn’t work out, don’t just say, “I have a broken heart.” Say, “I have a broken heart but I know the best is yet to come. Someone better will walk into my life and I will find my one true love.”

My friend Vic Espanol told me of Dr. Masaru Emoto. I read his fascinating work years ago, but reading it again opened my eyes to the power of our words…

The Power Of Words Over Water

       Can water be affected by our words?

Dr. Masaru Emoto, a Japanese scientist, believes so.

And he has proof.

Dr. Emoto took water droplets, exposed them to various words, music, and environments, and froze them for three hours. He then examined the crystal formations under a dark field microscope. And he took photographs.

The results were totally mind-blowing.

Here’s a photo of ordinary water without any prayer spoken over it. The molecular structure is in disarray.

The photo below is water after the prayer was said. It’s simply breathtaking.  (I now have a great respect for praying before meals! More on this later.)

Dr. Emoto also exposed water to Heavy Metal music. Here’s how it looks like. Looks sad if you ask me.

Here’s water exposed to classical music and folk dance music. Looks much better, right?

Next, Dr. Emoto stuck a piece of paper with these words: “You make me sick. I will kill you.” Here’s how the frozen water droplets looks like under the microscope…

Below is how water looked like with the words “Love” over it. The difference is amazing.

This is Polluted water…

       This is water from Lourdes, France. Utterly beautiful, right?

Wait A Minute—

Aren’t You Made Up Of Water?

       Yes! 72% of your body is made up of water.

       Imagine how your words affect your own body.

       When you say, “I’m a failure,” or “I’m hopeless,” or “I won’t get well,” imagine how these words weaken your health.

       Make a choice to say the best words out there. Say often, “I’m wonderful,” and “I’m beautiful,” and “I’m God’s child,” and “God has a great plan for my life!”

       It’s not only water.

       Dr. Emoto also experimented with cooked rice.

       He placed one cup of cooked rice in two airtight jars. On one jar, he wrote, “I love you,” and on the other, “You fool.” Everyday for 30 days, Dr. Emoto would say these words to each jar of rice.

       After 30 days, the “I love you” rice was still white. But the “You fool” rice was so rotten, it was black. How can you explain this?

Just as a side note: When I was a child, my mother taught me to pray before meals. Now I realize it wasn’t just a nice thing to do. When I pray over my meal, I know a material transformation takes place in the molecular level of the food that I pray for. I say, “Be blessed,” to the water and food on the table—and I expect it to be blessed.

Can Water Read Or Listen To Words?

Yes and No. 

Let me explain this in the simplest way I can.

I’m taking a deep breath now, because I can’t believe I’m going to do this: I’m going to give a mini-lecture on Physics. Me, the guy who got a D in all my science subjects!

       Do you remember Albert Einstein?

My friend Albert said that everything is energy. 

Remember his formula E=mc²? 

Well, he believed that energy and matter are interchangeable. Because in a subatomic level, the most solid matter you can think of, like a table or a rock (or my biceps) isn’t really solid at all. Everything is a sea of vibrating energy. Ever changing, ever moving, at the speed of light. Thus, in a mind-boggling way, there’s really no difference between a thing and a thought. All is energy.

Because of this, everything is interconnected. We’re all inside this ocean of fluid energy. That means my thoughts and words can really affect the entire material universe.

Amazing? You bet.

When you start speaking like this, people automatically think this is New Age and reject it. Not necessarily. What I gave you are reflections based on the Theory of Relativity and Quantum Physics. (Note: From a scientific perspective, I probably will get an F with my explanation above. I apologize to all the scientists out there.)

Friend, use your words to create your desired destiny.

Speak Words of Faith. Believe that your words affect your universe.

The Power Of Prayer

       I have a confession to make.

For many years, I’ve never understood why we needed “intercession”.

       Why do I need to ask you to pray for me? 

Let’s say I need money to buy food.

Doesn’t God love me enough to give me money if I ask Him? Why do I need to ask my friends to pray for me? 

Is God moved if instead of one person praying, we come as a group? Is God like a politician that is moved by numbers? Is God saying, “Hmmm, you’re only one person praying. Tsk, tsk. Not enough. Come back to me if you’re a crowd, okay?”

       Let’s say you’re sick and want healing. 

Why ask the saints to pray for you? Doesn’t God love you enough to heal you—without the backing of saints? Palakasan ba ‘to? Is God saying, “Don’t you bring References with you?”

       I also couldn’t understand “Soaking Prayer”. Someone told me, “Our mother was sick and we soaked her in prayer for two whole hours. And God healed her!”

       At the back of my mind, I asked, “Why? Why two hours? Doesn’t God hear us the first time we ask for healing? Is He that type of God who will wait if we’re really insistent—and then relent to our pleading?

If so, then God is a capricious God who doles out blessings to the strongest, loudest appeals.

       But as I reflected further, I began to understand.

       This understanding was a giant breakthrough for me.

The Blessings Are Already Given

I believe God has already made available all the blessings that you need. Healing. Miracles. Abundance. They’re all there. The Bible says that (Ephesians 1).

He’s not hiding any of that from us.

He’s not keeping it in a giant storehouse under lock and key, and giving them out piece by piece whenever we ask for them.

I repeat: He’s made them all available to you.

Imagine yourself swimming in an ocean of blessings. That’s the picture!

But here’s the reality: One person can be a sponge. And another person can be a rock. The sponge absorbs the water, the rock cannot. 

What makes you more absorbent? Your faith.

That’s why prayer has a powerful effect. It increases your faith. It makes you ready to receive blessings.

And when others pray for you, their faith increases your faith. No mater how far they are, their words travel at the speed of light and bless you. Something happens to you when others proclaim blessing to you. (And note: Love is the greatest power on the planet. When I pray for you, I’m loving you with God’s love. You receive this love. And this love heals and performs miracles.)

That’s why Intercession is powerful. That’s why soaking prayer is powerful. The problem isn’t in the giving of the blessing. The problem is in the receiving of the blessing. Many times, we’re not yet ready. Our faith isn’t ready. (Another note: Faith isn’t only the reason why we don’t receive blessings. There are other reasons that I don’t have time to talk about today.)

But being surrounded by the prayer and love of others, we increase our faith and receive His blessings.

       And when you speak words of truth, you affect the universe.

       Let me end with one last story.

Who Is Telling The Truth?

       One day, a young guy and a young girl fell in love.

       But the guy came from a poor family. The girl’s parents weren’t too happy.

       So the young man decided not only to court the girl but to court her parents as well. In time, the parents saw that he was a good man and was worthy of their daughter’s hand.

       But there was another problem: The man was a soldier. Soon, war broke out and he was being sent overseas for a year. 

       The week before he left, the man knelt on his knee and asked his lady love, “Will you marry me?” She wiped a tear, said yes, and they were engaged. They agreed that when he got back in one year, they would get married.

       But tragedy struck. A few days after he left, the girl had a major vehicular accident. It was a head-on collision.

       When she woke up in the hospital, she saw her father and mother crying. Immediately, she knew there was something wrong.

       She later found out that she suffered brain injury. The part of her brain that controlled her face muscles was damaged. Her once lovely face was now disfigured. She cried as she saw herself in the mirror. “Yesterday, I was beautiful. Today, I’m a monster.” Her body was also covered with so many ugly wounds.

       Right there and then, she decided to release her fiancé from their promise. She knew he wouldn’t want her anymore. She would forget about him and never see him again.

       For one year, the soldier wrote many letters—but she wouldn’t answer. He phoned her many times but she wouldn’t return her calls.

       But after one year, the mother walked into her room and announced, “He’s back from the war.”

       The girl shouted, “No! Please don’t tell him about me. Don’t tell him I’m here!”

       The mother said, “He’s getting married,” and handed her a wedding invitation.

       The girl’s heart sank. She knew she still loved him—but she had to forget him now.

With great sadness, she opened the wedding invitation.

And then she saw her name on it! 

Confused, she asked, “What is this?”

That was when the young man entered her room with a bouquet of flowers. He knelt beside her and asked, “Will you marry me?”

The girl covered her face with her hands and said, “I’m ugly!”

The man said, “Without your permission, your mother sent me your photos. When I saw your photos, I realized that nothing has changed. You’re still the person I fell in love. You’re still as beautiful as ever. Because I love you!”

This Story Is A Parable Of Your Life

Friend, the girl believed she was ugly.

       The man believed she was beautiful.

       Who is telling the truth?

       Simple answer: The man who loved.

       You may be like that woman. You feel you’re disfigured by your failures. Marred by your mistakes. You feel you live an ugly life. But God says you’re beautiful! Because He loves you.

       He doesn’t look at your mistakes. He doesn’t look at your past. He looks at the original beauty He created in you—and the glorious beauty of your future.

       I encourage you to speak words of truth.

       Dethrone the lies in your mind.

       Say, “I’m beautiful.” Say, “I’m a wonderful person.” Say, “I have a great future.” Say, “I’m anointed. I’m strong. I’m blessed.”

       Use your words to create your desired reality.

       May your dreams come true,

       Bo Sanchez

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        One day, I was preaching about expressing our love more.

After the talk, two grey-haired gentlemen walked up to me.

The first man said, “Brother Bo, in all the years that I’ve been married, not once have I have ever told my wife that I loved her. I was never trained to be expressive.”

The other man added, “Bo, I don’t feel a need to say ‘I love you’ to my wife. What other proof does she need? I’m still here married to her, am I not? I guess I want my actions to speak more than my words.”

I studied the men in front of me. And I understood them.

Because I realized what epoch they came from. Let me give you an idea of how old they were: I was wondering if they were classmates of Jose Rizal or Emilio Aguinaldo.

       Just kidding.

They were as old as my father.

       And that’s why I understood them.

       Because I understood my father.

Dad’s Favorite Word

I loved my father.

And I know that he loved me so much.

Everyday, he would spend time with me. He filled my heart with love.

But he wasn’t perfect.

Like those two older men, I remember how Dad didn’t speak much. 

His favorite word was a grunt.

He had this special grunt language that I learned to decipher through the years.

Here’s a typical conversation I had with him as a boy…

Little Bo: “Hi Dad!”

Dad: “Mmm.” (Blank stare.)

Little Bo: “Where’s Mom, Dad?”

Dad: “Mmm.” (Slightly jerks his head towards the kitchen.)

Little Bo: “Can we go to the toy store this Saturday?”

Dad: “Mmm.” (Shrugs his shoulders.)

Little Bo: “Will you buy me a Voltes V robot?”

Dad: “Mmm.” (Frowns.)

Little Bo: “Can you explain the theory of Relativity?”

Dad: “Mmm.” (Blank stare.)

Little Bo: “Wow Dad, everything makes sense to me now.”

Dad: “Mmm.” (Blank stare again.)

Did They Teach This in Fatherhood 101?

I think Filipino fathers of that generation were trained in this special “grunt” language. When they took up Fatherhood 101, they were taught how to be strong, aloof, and stoic as a grey wall.

Don’t get me wrong. I repeat: My Dad loved me. Very much.

But he just wasn’t good with his words.

In my entire life, I don’t remember my father telling me, “I love you”. Not once did he tell me, “I’m proud of you” or “I’m happy that you’re my son.”

Looking back, I wish he said these words to me. My spirit hungered to receive that blessing from him. 

If you’re a parent, don’t hold back simply because you’ve never done it before.

You might be saying, “But Bo, my kids are now adults. I guess it’s too late.”

No, it’s not. It’s never too late.

You can pick up the phone and tell them how much they mean to you. Honor them and give them the blessing.

Remember: You’re the only one who can do it. You’re the only one who can give them this special blessing.

As a parent. As a spouse. As a friend.

I know this from personal experience…

In His Strange Way, He Honored Me

I was eighteen and already preaching. 

But I was receiving so many invitations to preach, I was turning them down.

So one day, Dad scolded me. He said, “Bo, you have a gift to preach! I don’t have that gift. I wish I had it. But I don’t. You do. If I were you, I’d say yes to every single invitation. Because you need to use your gift. If you won’t use it, God may take it away from you!”

There was anger in his voice. But in the process, words of honor slipped out of his lips. In a tangential way, he was praising me. And my spirit was rejoicing. Though he didn’t say it, I got an inkling of how proud my father was for me. Those words meant so much to me, because I still remember them today—after 20+ years!

A Deep Desire In Every Human Heart

There I was, getting applause from everyone in the planet.

My audience admired me. People were praising me.

But all that wasn’t enough. Deep inside, I still wanted my own father to praise me. I wanted my Dad to honor me.

I believe that in every human heart is a deep need to be honored by one’s parents. All of us want to hear these words: “I’m proud and happy that you’re my child.”

Friend, honor your loved ones today with your words!

Don’t say, “Oh Bo, I’m too old to learn.”

Don’t be stuck in your old ways. For the sake of the children, you can change. Use your words to bless others.

       Remember: When you honor a person with your words, you’re not just making that person feel good. Because words have power. God has imbued our words with immense creative power. Your words can create life. Your words can perform miracles. Your words can heal wounds. Your words can refresh the spirit.

But I know some people do the very opposite: They use they’re incredible power to curse.

You Have The Power To Bless Or Curse

       One day, a woman came up to me and asked for prayers. She said a mangkukulam cursed her. She’s been sick for a year, suffering terrible pains in her body, but doctors couldn’t find anything wrong with her. 

It was probably true. Because when our prayer team prayed for her, the healing was instant. She never suffered pains again.

Mangkukulams are feared by everyone. Because these witches have the power to kill or harm simply by cursing their enemies.

Scary, right?

I’ve got news for you: You don’t have to be a mangkukulam to have this power. All of us have this power.

When Parents say, “Buwiset ka! Wala kang kuwentang anak! Ang tigas tigas ng ulo mo! Ang bobo mo!” (You’re worthless, You’re dumb), they’re cursing their kids. They’re prophesying doom to their children. They’re acting exactly like voodoo witches.

       Yesterday, I was reading about J. Paul Getty. He was a billionaire. He owned 200+ companies. He was a total success in business but a total failure in family.

He was married five times and divorced five times. He had six sons. But he was so busy building his empire, he never really spent time with his children. He was also very critical.

       For example, his son Paul Jr. would write letters to his father. The letters would come back with the spelling and grammatical errors corrected—but there was no reply from the father. Paul later became a heroin addict.

       His other son, Gordon, dealt with his father only through the court, fighting over money. 

His other son Ronald went into filmmaking, and his father ridiculed him. 

Another son worked with the father in the family business. But he took his life, stabbing himself in the stomach and taking an overdose of pills.

In one sense, J. Paul Getty cursed his kids.

You too have the power to bless and curse people with the use of your words. The Bible says that life and death are in the power of the tongue.

Let me share a very weird story from the Bible.

A Very Weird Story

Isaac had twin sons—Jacob and Esau. 

When some Filipinos hear “Esau”, they automatically get hungry. (Focus on the story, please.)

Isaac and his wife Rebecca played favorites. With disastrous results. Daddy Isaac favored Esau while Mommy Rebecca favored Jacob. (Parents, don’t play favorites. The Esau-Jacob conflict continues to this day in the Middle East, about 3000+ years later!) 

When Isaac was old and blind, he called his son Esau and said, “I’m going to die soon. I want to give you my blessing. Go and hunt a wild animal for me, cook it the way I want it and serve it to me. Then I’ll give you my blessing.”

But Rebecca was outside the tent, eavesdropping. 

Quickly, she cooked a goat from their flocks. She then told Jacob to bring the meal to his father and pretend that he was Esau, so he could get the blessing.

Isaac, being blind, was fooled. He thought Jacob was Esau and gave him his blessing. He said, “May you have abundance, may the nations serve you, may all those who bless you be blessed, and may all those who curse you be cursed.”

When Jacob left, his brother Esau came in. Isaac was so surprised. And he said, “Sorry Esau, I gave the blessing to Jacob. I can’t take it back anymore.”

What Were These Guys Fighting For?

What’s weird? The brothers weren’t fighting for their father’s gold, or their father’s cattle, or their father’s land.

They were fighting for their father’s words.

They were fighting for an old man’s blessing.

Why?

Because in Bible thinking, words aren’t just meaningless sounds. Words aren’t just noise. Words have creative power. Words define our reality.

When I tell my son, “I’m so happy that you’re my son. I know you’ll be very successful in all areas of life and everything you touch will prosper,” I’m not only honoring my son, I’m also giving him a supernatural blessing.

When I tell my wife, “I love you. You’re the best thing that ever happened to me,” I’m not only honoring her, I’m also giving her a supernatural blessing.

Part of this supernatural blessing is a prophecy…

People Will Rise To The Level Of

What You Prophesy

You’re a prophet.

You can shape the destiny of your children, of your friends, of your loved ones by your words.

Here’s what I learned: People will rise to the level of what you prophesy. People will adjust to your prophecy.

Remember, if you don’t tell your kids who they are and what their destiny is, someone else will. The television will tell them. The internet will tell them. Bullies in school will tell them.

Don’t let that happen. Honor your kids!

This is the story of my life.

Once upon a time, I was 13 years old who was a poor student in school. I didn’t know what to do with my life.

But one day, this woman came up to me, prophesied to me and said, “Bo, you’ll receive the gift of wisdom. I believe in you. You’ll preach God’s Word to many people.” She then asked me to give a talk to our prayer group. She did it again and again.

From a nobody, I rose up to her prophecy.

“But Bo, My Parents Didn’t Honor Me!”

Perhaps your parents failed to give you the blessing.

Then here’s what you do.

Go to God and receive that blessing directly from Him.

When the Father introduced Jesus to the world, He said, “This is my son with whom I am well pleased.” What was the Father doing? He was honoring and blessing the Son.

       I believe God says these same words to you. “This is my child whom I am well pleased!”
       You may have a difficult time swallowing that. “No Bo, I’m a big sinner. I’ve failed God. I’m sure He won’t say that about me.”

       But that’s Grace. When God looks at you, He doesn’t see your mistakes. He sees the goodness He created in you.

       Last Thursday, I listened  to Fr. Cantalamesa preach. 

Who is he? Fr. Cantalamesa is the Retreat Master of the Pope. Whenever the Pope goes on retreat, he’s the guy who gives it. For 30 years, he’s been the Preacher to the Papal Household.

       Fr. Cantalamesa said something that blew me away. He said he likes saying to God, “Father, look at me… and rejoice!” 

Wow.

Friend, God delights in you. 

He doesn’t only love you, He rejoices over you. When God sees you, I believe He’s so happy, He sings, jumps, and dances for joy.

What Do You See In The People Around You?

Once upon a time, I was a “negative” spiritual leader.

My most predominant question was, “What is wrong with my flock?” I focused on their faults. I looked at their weaknesses. I’d say, “They lack commitment,” and “They’re so hard headed…”

So I preached fear, hoping that people will get scared enough to change their lives. I looked down at my listeners.  I told them to shape up or else…

But one day, my leadership changed. 

Because I changed.

I believe I changed when I became a father.

       Because I learned that focusing on my children’s weaknesses only multiplied them. I learned to focus on their strengths, and by doing so, their strengths increased. The good news? Their strengths spontaneously pushed out their weaknesses!

So I became a “positive” spiritual leader.

Now, when I look at my flock, I ask, “What’s wonderful about them?” Today, I’m amazed at how committed, generous, and loving they are. I can’t ask for a better spiritual family!

Today, I preach love. I can’t help it. God has filled my heart with so much love, it overflows.

       Let me tell you my last story …

You Are My Sunshine

       I love this story so much.

One day, 3-year old Michael wished for a baby sister.

       So when his mother got pregnant with a baby girl, the little tyke was delighted. Everyday, he’d rub his mother’s tummy and sing to his baby sister, You are my sunshine, You are my sunshine, You make me happy, when stars are grey…

       But when the baby was born, there were complications. The baby was in critical condition.

       Little Michael waited at home, wondering why his mother and his baby sister weren’t coming home yet.

       A few days later, the doctor told the mother that the baby may not last long. The mother decided to bring Michael to the ICU and see his baby sister before she died.

       She knew it was against the ICU rules, but she knew she had to do it. She brought in little Michael and let him stand beside his very sick baby sister.

       That was when the Head Nurse saw Michael and shouted, “Children are not allowed here!”

       But before they could pull him out of the room, little Michael sang to his baby sister, You are my sunshine, You are my sunshine. You make me happy, when stars are grey, You never know dear, how much I love you, please don’t take my sunshine away…

       Immediately, the baby grew calm. Her heart rate, which was abnormally fast, slowed down.

       The Head Nurse noticed what was happening and said, “Little boy, whatever you’re doing, keep doing it. Something is happening to the baby!”

       Michael kept singing to his sister. And everyday, she got better. Until she got totally well.

       Because little Michael used words of honor to bless his sister.

       Friend, you too can heal others.

       You have the power of God in your tongue.

       Use your words to bless others.

       May your dreams come true,

       Bo Sanchez

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        Do you want to know your future?

So many people are awed by Nostradamus, Edgar Cayce, Jean Dixon, and even Madame Auring (yes, her!) because they claim to predict the future.

Friend, I have a big announcement to make: You can predict the future.

You don’t have to look for a prophet, a seer, or a fortune-teller to know your future. You don’t have to consult the horoscope, the crystal ball, your palm, tea leaves, or fortune cookies to know your future.

You can predict your future.

How? All you have to do is listen to your words.

By examining the words that come out of your mouth, you’ll know your future. Guaranteed.

Let me share with you three people…

Where Do You Want To Go?

       Nineteen years ago, I had a friend who was always miserable.

Constantly, I heard “Glenda” say, “Life sucks,” and “Life is terrible,” and “I’m doomed,” and “I’m a looser.” I heard her always sigh with heaviness, “Hay buhay, parang life…”

We lost touch for 11 years.

But I met Glenda recently

Guess what. Her life is still miserable.

Her words created her reality.

       My other friend, “Marcel”, liked talking negatively about his health. Ever since I can remember, he kept saying, “I’ll die when I reach fifty.”

       I would tell him, “Fifty? My gosh. Don’t say that!”

       He’d say, “My father died in his fifties. My grandfather died in his fifties too. So I’m sure I’ll die when I reach fifty.”

       True enough, at the exact age of fifty years old, Marcel was walking in the sidewalk. All of a sudden, he fell like a log. Wham. He died of a heart attack.

       His words created his reality.

The Bible says that your tongue is like a rudder of a big ship. Like a rudder, your tongue directs your life.

       So let me ask you: What kind of future do you want to have?

Don’t use your words to describe your reality. Use your words to create your desired reality.

Another way of putting it: Don’t just talk about where you are. Talk about where you want to go.

Use Your Words To Direct Your Future

My third example is my 84-year old mother.

Last Sunday, Mom was limping.

By Monday, she couldn’t get out of bed. She said her leg was so painful, she couldn’t move it. She couldn’t even walk to the bathroom by herself.

By Tuesday, she was so depressed because we had to put her on a wheelchair. She hated the idea. “I don’t want to be paralyzed!” she said. The entire time, she was moaning and groaning, complaining about the pain and her condition.

That day, I visited her and spoke words of faith. I said, “Mom, this is temporary. You’ll get better.” I prayed for her and taught her a simple healing exercise.  I also told her, “Mom, you’ve got to change your words. I know you’re discouraged, but you’ve got to say, “I’m getting better and better everyday.”

She laughed. She asked, “How could I say those words when she had so much pain and could barely move her leg?”

“You’ve got to try!” I said.

But I called her Wednesday and she was better.

I called her Thursday and she began walking.

I called her Friday and she went down the stairs already.

And Sunday? She was at the Feast, walking around like nothing happened.

Perhaps you’re sick like my mother today.

Say, “I feel better and better everyday.” 

Echo Joel 3:10, where it says, “Let the weak say I am strong…” So even if you feel weak, believe that God will heal you.

       Let me tell you how this works…

Why Faith Words Work

I can explain it in many ways:

·        Faith Words affect your emotions in a positive way.

·        Faith Words—repeated again and again—create new neural pathways in your brain.

·        Faith Words also train your Reticular Activating System (RAS) to be attentive to see the blessings you desire.

All that is true.

But here’s my favorite explanation: Faith Words aren’t just mere positive affirmations; They open your life up to the supernatural power of God.

In Biblical thinking, words aren’t just sounds or noise.

Words are imbued with God’s creative power.

In Genesis, God created the world by His words. He didn’t create light by mixing up stuff with His hands. He simply said, “Let there be light” and there was light.

       The Bible also says that death and life are in the power of our tongue. Pretty awesome, right?

God Will Provide

       In 2009, my friend Rey Ortega felt God was calling him to rescue babies from abortion. He discussed this with me and passed this dream to my heart. I told him, “Let’s start a ministry.”

       Rey then told me, “But I have a problem. How can we raise money for this new work? I’ve exhausted all my friends already for our other work. They all now donate to our Tahanan orphanage and Pagasa scholarship for poor children.” 

       That’s when I told Rey my Faith Words. Just three words. I said, “God will provide.” 

He said, “Wow, I’m impressed by your faith!”

       Actually, I was hiding my fear. I was actually scared! In my mind, I said, “Oh no, here I go again, getting myself into another ministry…”

When I said, “God will provide,” we had nothing. Zero. But soon, blessings began to flow like a waterfall.

       That month, out of the blue, My Ninang (godmother) called up my office because she needed a speaker for her little prayer group. Specifically, she wanted a speaker to share about the topic, “The Sanctity of Life”. 

Obviously, the best speaker on the topic was Rey Ortega. He was the one who had this dream of rescuing babies from abortion in his heart. So I told Rey, “Give the talk. And share our dream to my Ninang. She’s rich!”

And that night, he did.

       My Ninang heard Rey’s story and invited him for lunch the next day. When they met, my Ninang said, “You can use my building for your ministry. You have 300 square meters for your halfway house.” Not only that, she spent two million pesos of her own money to remodel it for our use.

We didn’t even call her. She called us.

Was that coincidence? 

No. That’s synchronicity of grace. That’s the universe conspiring to bless us. We were no longer chasing after blessings. The blessings were chasing after us. Resources were rolling at our feet, begging that we take them.

“God will provide,” is a powerful Faith Word.

In May 2009, we began Grace To Be Born, a halfway house for pregnant womenin crisis and an orphanage for babies. In 6 months, we’ve rescued 15 babies from abortion.

Friend, are you praying for God to provide for you?

Here’s my belief: Sooner or later, your outside world will match your inside world. What’s does your inside world say?

       Remember, your faith is more powerful than your sight.

Your sight can only describe your situation, your faith can direct your situation.

       Let me tell you the story of Elijah…

I Hear The Sound Of Heavy Rain

Even When There Is No Rain

I love this incredible story.

For 3 years, there was a drought in Israel. Absolutely no rain in the whole land. In our language, a very bad El Nino.

But one day, the prophet Elijah told King Ahab, “Your problems are over. Go, eat and drink, for I hear the sound of heavy rain.” King Ahab was relieved and followed Elijah’s orders.

But was there actually rain? 

None. Not a drop.

In fact, there was not a single cloud in the sky.

That was when Elijah prayed very hard. The Bible says he went up to Mount Carmel, bent over, and placed his head between his knees. If you pray in that posture, that means Elijah was desperate. I should know. That was how I prayed when I was courting my wife. (It worked!)

Elijah then told his servant, “Look towards the sea and check for clouds.”

The servant looked and said, “No clouds.”

You can imagine how worried Elijah must have felt.

So Elijah prayed one more time and told his servant, “Check again.” The servant looked and shook his head, “Nope, no clouds.”

The Bible says this scene was repeated 7 times.

By the seventh time, I can imagine what the poor servant was thinking. I bet he wanted to say, “Elijah, I told you 6 times already, the sky is empty.  Nothing. Nada. Zero. Zilcho. When are you going to quit? When are you going to tell King Ahab that you made a big booboo?”

But Elijah didn’t quit. He asked him, “Check again.”

Big Clouds Come From Little Clouds

When the servant looked a seventh time, he said, “I saw a little cloud no bigger than a man’s hand, coming up from the sea.”

In other words, he was saying, “Uh, there’s a tiny cloud. But don’t get your hopes up too much. It’s so itsy bitsy tiny, I can cover it with my hand. See? I don’t see it no more.”

But that little cloud was enough for Elijah. He said, “Tell King Ahab to hurry home as he might be caught by the downpour.”

Wow. That’s faith.

And the Bible says the wind began to blow and the heavy rain began to fall.

       Friend, it’s your turn to create your miracles.

       Do you see an empty sky or a little cloud?

       When you focus on emptiness, more emptiness will come. But when you focus on the blessings—no matter how small—more blessings will come.

Speak Blessing Into Your Future

Here’s my message: There’s a connection between what you say and what will happen.

You have a choice: You can say, “There’s not a cloud in the sky” or you can say, “I hear the sound of heavy rain.”

Perhaps today, you don’t see the healing happening yet in your body. But you can confess, “I’m being healed by God right now. Health and healing are flowing into my body. I’m getting better and better everyday.”

Perhaps today, you don’t see your child changing yet. He’s still making bad choices. He’s still hanging out with bad company. He’s still taking drugs. But you can confess, “My child is coming closer to God. As I speak, God is working in his life.”

Perhaps today, you don’t see your financial situation getting better. But you can confess, “I’m getting rich and richer everyday. God is prospering the work of my hands.”

Perhaps today, you don’t see yourself free from addictions yet. But you can confess, “I may have had addictions in the past, but God is starting a new chapter in my life. I may feel weak right now but I declare that God is making me strong.”

Like Elijah, you need to hear the sound of heavy rain even when there’s not a cloud in the sky. You need to hear the heavy rain of blessings into your life even when you don’t see anything yet.

Start speaking words of faith into your future.

Because your words create your reality.

       Let me tell you my last story.

Use Your Words To Direct Your Future

Last year, one of my small businesses collapsed.

In a snap, it simply sunk.

       Circumstances beyond my control pulled the rug beneath it and it came crashing down.

       My small business was almost one year old. All of a sudden, in one day, I lost all my customers.

I wish I could tell you that because I’m a preacher, I smiled and sang, “Give thanks with a grateful heart…”

That’s not true. At least, not right away.

Believe me, I was so discouraged. I was so frustrated, I wanted to say, “This business is dead,” and “I’m a failure,” and “Why did I let this happen? I’m so foolish.”

       But I didn’t say those words. 

       Because I knew words have power.

       Instead of using my words to describe my reality, I decided to use my words to create my desired reality.

       Every time I wanted to say those negative words, I closed my eyes, took a deep breath, and proclaimed with faith, “My business will rise up stronger than ever. This failure is temporary. This failure will make my business even better.”

       For three months, I tried to resurrect my business. And I couldn’t do it. I felt like I was hitting my head on a brick wall. But no matter how discouraged I felt, I kept saying these faith statements, “My business will rise up stronger than ever.” And I didn’t stop trying to fix it.

       And soon, I discovered the blessing within the problem. Because I had to start from scratch, I was able to change my business model. 

Today, that small business is doing so much better. Today, I have more customers, more sales, and more profits!

You know what? Today, I thank God my business collapsed. Because it gave me the chance to transform it and make it better.

What happened?

My words—my Faith Words—created my desired reality.

Proclaim Those Faith Words

Look, I’m not saying that speaking Faith Words is all that you need to do to succeed in life. This isn’t magic.

To succeed in life, you need love, wisdom, mentors, action…

But speaking words of faith is incredibly important too!

May I suggest something?

I want you to take five minutes everyday declaring Faith Words.   I guarantee that it can change your life. Five minutes in the morning, declare God’s word, including your positive beliefs about your life.

Here’s why. In Mark 11:23, Jesus said something incredible. He said, I tell you the truth, if anyone says to this mountain, ‘Go, throw yourself into the sea,’ and does not doubt in his heart but believes that what he says will happen, it will be done for him. 

Friend, what is your mountain? 

It may be sickness. It may be a troublesome relationship. It may be a lack of money.

Don’t just pray about the mountain. Don’t just talk about the mountain. Instead, speak to the mountain.

That’s what I did to my failed business. I told it to resurrect.

       My message again: Don’t use your words to describe your reality. Use your words to create your reality.

Below, you’ll find God’s Word combined with my own positive words. I wrote these Faith Words so that you can speak them everyday. In fact, depending on your particular “mountain”, I want you to say these Faith Words not just once, but many times during the day.

Talk to the mountain of sickness:

“With long life, He satisfies me and shows me His salvation. I’m getting better and better everyday. I am getting stronger and stronger everyday. The power of healing is flowing through my body, mind, and spirit. New health, new joy, new peace, new hope is increasing within me.”

Talk to the mountain of a loved one going astray:

“My child (husband, brother, etc.) is growing closer to God. Deep inside his heart, the Holy Spirit is busy working, changing, and transforming him. He is set free from all his addictions. He will fulfill God’s purpose for his life. I declare that as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.”

Talk to the mountain of addictions:

“I may have had addictions in the past, but God is starting a new chapter in my life. I may feel weak now but I declare that God is making me strong. God is setting me free.”

Talk to the mountain of relationship conflicts:

“God is blessing my relationships. Love is increasing. Service for one another is growing. Forgiveness, humility, and understanding flow like a river in my relationships. Old wounds are being healed. Bonds between us are getting stronger and deeper.”

Talk to the mountain of confusion in decision-making:

“The steps of the good person are ordered by the Lord. God directs my steps. God helps me to distinguish what is right from wrong. God shows me the paths to abundance.”

Talk to the mountain of financial difficulty:

“I’m rich and getting richer. I’m generous and getting more generous. God’s abundance is supplying my every need. Everything I touch prospers and succeeds. New doors will open before me. The right people will walk into my life. God will prosper the work of my hands. As I use my core gifts to serve others, I will be richly rewarded.”

Friend, there’s a miracle in your mouth waiting to be released. 

Release it today.

       May your dreams come true,

       Bo Sanchez

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       So many people ask me, “Bo, how can I break free from my bad habits?” 

This question deserves an entire book. But if I only have 3 seconds to answer them, I’d tell them, “Change your Inner Movies.”

Why? Because habits start in the mind.

       Before they become a habit of action, they’re first habits of thought. I believe that you cannot change habits of action if you don’t change habits of thought. 

And what are habits of thought? 

In one word, Beliefs.

       So if you want to change bad habits, you have to first change the bad beliefs that support your bad habits. It’s impossible to change bad habits if you don’t change the bad beliefs behind them.

But where do your bad beliefs come from?

       From bad movies.

       Nope, I don’t mean bad movies from Hollywood.

       I don’t mean movies shown at the big screen.

       I’m talking about “Inner Movies” that show at the small screens of our minds.

       You may not know this, but 24 hours a day, we’re watching inner movies. And these inner movies affect our destiny.

We All Have Favorite Movies

In my home, we have a huge library of children’s videos. 

Last count, we almost have a hundred of them scattered around the living room. My eldest son is 9 years old—so that’s 9 years of collecting Barney, Veggietales, Magic Schoolbus, and Disney.

       But here’s the funny thing. Even if we have almost 100 movies to watch, only 10 of those movies get watched again and again.   Why? Because kids like watching the same favorite movies. 

I don’t know how many times have I heard my little Francis say, “Daddy, I want to watch Barney Goes To The Zoo!” At our house, Barney has gone so many times to the zoo, he’s decided to live there.

Kids have favorite movies but adults have them too.

In our imagination, we watch the same Inner Movies in our mind all the time. But some of our favorite Inner Movies aren’t good for us.

What Inner Movies Do You Watch?

There are two kinds of inner movies stored in your brain: Good Movies and Bad Movies.

Good Inner Movies inspire you, encourage you, lift you up. They help you become a better human being.

Bad Inner Movies discourage you, pull you down, limit you, depress you, and fill you with shame.

Question: What kind of Inner Movies do you watch in your mind? That question is so important, it’ll determine your future. Because your thoughts aren’t just thoughts. Your thoughts become things.

Let me give you an example of a bad Inner Movie that people like watching again and again…

Title: Total Failure

Subtitle: This Is My Fate And I Can’t Do Anything About It

Replace this with a new Inner Movie instead…

Title: Total Victory

Subtitle: This Is My Destiny And I Love It

Where Do Our Inner Movies Come From?

I remember my friend “Sheila”.

Sheila’s father was a mean, negative, sarcastic person.

As a young girl, whenever she entered the house, her father would ask, “Anong kabalastugan ang ginawa mo sa araw na ito?” (What bad things did you do today?)

One day, Sheila brought an average report card and her father said, “Wala kang kuwenta. Walang mangyayari sa buhay mo.” (You’re worth nothing. And you’ll never amount to anything.)

And every single day of her life, Sheila would replay this horrible inner movie in her mind—that of her father saying these cruel words to her.

When I met Sheila, she was thirty years old, but she looked like she was forty. When I met her, she was a drug addict, a drug pusher, and a bum. Her father’s words were prophetic.

       Perhaps you feel like Sheila. Perhaps you had parents who didn’t believe in you. Perhaps you came from a broken family. Perhaps your parents didn’t love you. And you made wrong decisions and messed up your life. And today, you think there’s no more hope for you.

       I beg to disagree.

       Sheila’s story isn’t done yet.

       One day, Sheila joined the Light of Jesus Family.

       Her transformation wasn’t overnight. But slowly, she changed her life. How do I know? For five years now, Sheila has been off drugs and living a happy life.  She is now forty years old but she looks like she’s thirty. There’s a new glow in her face.

       How did she change?

       She changed her thoughts. She changed what she watched in the DVD player of her mind. Instead of replaying what her earthly father was saying about her, she replayed what her heavenly Father was saying about her.

       That’s why I believe you can change too.

       You can decide today to change your thoughts. To change your Inner Movie. To surround yourself with people who can lift you up instead of pull you down.

       Nothing is impossible with God.

Are You Really Weak? Says Who?

Here’s an Inner Movie I watched in my mind for many years…

                Title: The Rubber Man

Subtitle: Why Am I Sooooo Weak?

For almost 20 years, I was trapped in my addictions. And I really believed that I was weak. But it was all a lie. I wasn’t weak at all. I had God’s supernatural strength within me. 

I overcame my addiction. I was strong after all.

       You may feel you’re weak right now. You may have fallen so many times, you want to give up. 

But declare these words with faith, “God didn’t create me to be a slave. God created me to be His child. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. So I’m strong. I’m equipped. I’m anointed. I’m blessed. I’m favored. God is with me.”

Here’s the Inner Movie I now replay in mind…

Title: The Diamond Man

Subtitle: Why Am I Sooooo Strong and Beautiful?

Your Fears Can Create

The Very Thing You’re Afraid Of

This next Inner Movie is, sadly, a box-office hit. People line up for to watch Inner Movies like these…

Title: My Worst Nightmare

Subtitle: It Will Happen This Year

Why do people watch horror movies? 

To feel fear. For some crazy reason, fear is enjoyable.

We replay scary scenarios in our minds because we want to feel fear. But our fears are not just feelings. Our fears can create our reality.

       One day, I met a girl who told me, “Brother Bo, I don’t know why, but I’m afraid of losing my boyfriend. I’m afraid he’ll fall in love with another girl.” She became extremely jealous whenever he was with other women. It didn’t matter if the other woman was 95 years old or a walking zombie

       I met the guy and it was clear that he loved his girlfriend. But as the months went by, he felt burdened by the relationship. She was suffocating him. Everytime they met, she was like a private detective, asking questions, sniffing his shirt, and checking his cell phone. And true enough, he finally left her and married someone else.

       In other words, her fears created the very reality she was afraid would happen.

       If you’re a person of fear, I strongly urge you to watch a new Inner Movie …

Title: My Greatest Dream

Subtitle: It Will Happen This Year

Expectation Creates Your Reality Too

       Here’s the truth: Expectation is Preparation. When you expect great things to happen, you’re preparing yourself for those great things. So be excited with what God will do in your life this year. 

So let me ask you…

Do you expect blessings in your finances?

Do you expect blessings in your family life?

Do you expect blessings in your health?

Do you expect blessings in your lovelife?

When you don’t expect great things to happen, you won’t see them even if these great things are right in front of you, jumping up and down and waving at you.

But some people don’t expect anything. 

Because their favorite Inner Movie in their minds is…

Title: Why My Dreams Will Never Come True

Subtitle: The Depressing Story Of A Wasted Life

My friend “Connie” is always depressed.

Many times, she finds herself crying at night. Sometimes, she doesn’t even know why she’s crying.

Connie knows she shouldn’t be depressed. She knows she is such a blessed woman. But she is still depressed.

One day, she admitted to me, “Bo, I realized that I like feeling depressed.”

Again, this is absurd, but it’s more common then you think.

Connie has a painful childhood. So for people like Connie, when they’re moping, lonely, and crying, they feel at home. Because it’s what they’re used to. We all like to go home. But in order to feel at home, they recreate their childhood, no matter how painful it was.

So I urged my friend to watch a different kind of movie in her mind…

Title: Why My Dreams Will Come True

Subtitle: The Inspiring Story Of A Fantastic Life

Believe that God has fantastic plan for your life.

Many Are Poor Because

They Expect To Remain Poor

A lot of people watch the Inner Movie below.

I know I did. For years!

Title: Beggar Forever

Subtitle: I’m Poor And Getting Poorer

Once upon a time, I wanted to be poor.

I felt this was what God wanted for my life.

But when I got married and had kids, I realized that I was mistaken. God wasn’t calling me to a vow of poverty but a vow of generosity. In fact, I believe that God calls 99% of people to the vow of generosity.

So I created my small businesses and God is blessing them.

I was happy last week. There was this missionary family, friends of mine, who’ve been working in God’s vineyard for almost 20 years. I knew how much they sacrificed for God’s work. I felt God whisper to my heart, “Pay for their vacation.” So I bought them plane tickets to go away to a nice island and rest for awhile.

I felt happy I had money to do it.

But more than that, I felt happier that I had the generosity to give it to them.

Some people see generosity as a side effect of becoming rich.

The opposite is true. I see becoming rich as a side effect of becoming generous. 

And in my mind, I watch this Inner Movie all the time…

Title: Generous Forever

Subtitle: I’m Rich And Getting Richer

Do you want to become wealthy?

The first thing you can do is to change your thoughts.

Every morning, declare this faith statement: “I’m rich and getting richer. I’m generous and getting more generous. God is blessing me with wealth. I’m a channel of blessing to others.”

Do You Value You?

And here’s another Inner Movie you need to stop watching…

Title: I’m Garbage

Subtitle: Why You Need To Throw Me Away

A wife came up to me one day and said, “My husband doesn’t value me.” I asked her, “Do you value yourself?”

Remember that you teach others how to treat you. If you value yourself, people around you will pick up that inner value that you have about yourself and will value you too.

I want you to watch this instead…

Title: I’m Gold

Subtitle: Why You Need To Treasure Me

Say this out loud, “I’m more valuable than the stars of the sky. I’m precious in the heart of God.”

Let me now speak to parents…

The Prayers Of Parents Are Powerful

You may be a mother or father whose child has left the right path. Who has rebelled. Who has abandoned their faith.

You may be watching this Inner Movie …

Title: My Kids Will Rot In Hell

Subtitle: The Horror Story Of My Family

I remember my friend Joey.

       His entire world crumbled when he discovered shabu in the bedroom of his eldest son, Joseph. His son was 22 years old.

       For 4 years, Joseph entered in and out of rehab, but it seemed like he was getting worse. His body was wasting away. He stole to support his habit.

During those dark years, my friend Joey would cry at my shoulder. He wondered if his son would die a drug addict.

But I told him, “God has a great plan for your son, Joseph. Far greater than you can ever imagine or think of. So don’t give up praying. Don’t give up believing. Don’t give up loving him with tough love. God is working in your son. We don’t see it. But He’s sending people to him. He’s speaking to him. He’s blessing him.”

And one day, it just happened. Joseph stopped taking drugs cold turkey.

       Today, Joseph has been free from drugs for the past 7 years. He runs his own little business and has a wonderful family life. He’s also busy serving God in a prayer meeting.

       Sometimes, Joey and I have coffee and chat about the past. He would ask me, “Bo, do you remember how I’d cried to you about Joseph?”

I’d smile, “Yes.”

“Who would have imagined that one day, that big problem would disappear like the mist?”

       Friend, don’t give up believing for your loved ones. For your kids, or your parents, or your siblings, or your friends.  God is working in the people you love. God hasn’t given up on them. You may not see it, but God is touching them, knocking at their hearts, blessing them.

       Declare this faith statement: “As for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.”

And watch this Inner Movie in your mind…

Title: My Kids Are Servants Of God

Subtitle: The Love Story Of My Family

Believe that the seeds of faith that you’ve planted in their hearts will one day bear fruit.

Make A Declaration About Your Future

Let me end by asking you to claim your destiny.

Using your words, proclaim your desired future.

Say it with faith.

“God created me free! I’m now free to serve God and serve God’s people. I’m focusing on new dreams, not on old chains. Because my future is brighter than my past, I fix my gaze on my future, not my past. Everyday, I’m getting new habits to replace old ones. These new habits will bless me and bless the world. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Because of God, I am a conqueror. I’m a champion!”

       Friend, change your Inner Movies.

       Because if you change your thoughts, you change your life.

       May your dreams come true,

       Bo Sanchez

PS.Change your financial life this 2010. Join me for my transformational How To Be Truly Rich Seminar on February 6, from 8:30am to 12noon. For more information, click here. 

PS2.Not Living in Manila? If you don’t live in Manila and can’t attend my seminar, you can get it online through my TrulyRichClub. When you become a Gold Member, you can get it free. Log on at www.TrulyRichClub.com now!

       I’m a legendary artist. (Ahem.)

       I’ve produced legendary artwork.

       So legendary, in fact, no one remembers them.

Michaelangelo uses paint.

Leonardo da Vinci uses charcoal.

Me? I use my sons’ magic sketchpad.

Okay, it’s a toy. 

But I love this toy. 

My boys and I would sit on the couch and doodle for hours. Together, we’ve drawn literally thousands of sketches. We’ve created entire worlds and galaxies together. Roller coasters, spaceships, rockets, monsters, aliens—you name it, we drew it.

Here’s why I love this toy. 

When I make a mistake, I don’t get angry. I don’t curse myself. I don’t condemn myself. I simply pull the eraser button and draw again.

Which is what we’re supposed to do in life.

I’ve met some people who think that just because they’ve made mistakes, just because they made bad choices, God won’t bless them anymore.

Hey, we’ve all made mistakes.

Perhaps you gave yourself to addictions. Perhaps you were a rebellious child and made your parents unhappy. Perhaps you married the wrong person. Perhaps you didn’t raise up your kids well. Perhaps you made poor financial decisions.

I want to give you hope today. Your future is brighter than your past. How do I know? Because God’s plan is bigger than your mistakes. Your mistakes are no match to God’s great plans to bless your life.

Have You Missed Your Chance

At A Happy And Blessed Life?

       I’ve met so many people who think they’ve “blown” it.

       People like Jordan and Cindy.

As boyfriend and girlfriend, they practiced pre-marital sex. Eventually, Cindy got pregnant. She was 18 years old. 

They rushed into marriage. Both of them had to drop out from college. Cindy, being the eldest in the family, once dreamt of working in an office and sending her younger siblings to school. That dream was no longer possible.

       Jordan had a dream of getting a job abroad.  He gave that up too and took a low-paying job to feed his small family.

Today, they’re very poor. Everyday is a struggle to survive.

       But when I talked to them, I realized that the lack of money was not just their problem. Jordan and Cindy had a lack of hope.

First, both of them blamed each other for the pregnancy and the foolish decision to get married. Cindy felt Jordan always forced himself on her. While Jordan felt Cindy manipulated him to get married to save face.

Deeper than that, guilt had never left their hearts. At the back of their minds, they felt they deserved their poverty as punishment for their sins.

They told me, “Brother Bo, we blew it. We missed our chance at a happy life.”

Meet The God Of Second Chances

       I told them, “You’re wrong. God has a great plan to bless your life. And He has many ways to make this great plan a reality. You made a detour.  But that doesn’t mean you no longer can receive His abundant blessing.”

       Both began to cry. Cindy said, “I know that God forgave us. But I don’t know if He’ll ever bless us…”

       I shook my head. I said, “Here’s what I learned about the mercy of God: No mistake you made can totally destroy God’s plan for your life.

       I talked about a few not-so-perfect people in the Bible.

       About Jacob—how he lied, deceived, and swindled. Yet God named an entire nation after him. 

About David—how he became an adulterer and a murderer. Yet God still made him the greatest king of Israel.

       About Elijah—how he ended up depressed and a coward before Queen Jezebel. Yet he was there with Jesus and Moses at the miracle of Transfiguration.

       About Peter—how hot headed, temperamental, and out-of-control guy he was. Yet God made him the head of the Church.

       About Paul—how he was a murderer of saints. Yet God made him one of the greatest apostles of the Bible.

       I told Cindy and Jordan, “If you read the Bible, you’ll realize that the biggest stars were the biggest sinners. They’ve fumbled big time. But God’s love is bigger! And God gave them a second chance. And a third chance. And a fourth chance. He will never stop giving you a chance to live a life of happiness and abundance.”

I then shared a powerful Bible verse to them: Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.

       “God wants you to go to Him with confidence. With boldness.”   I prayed over them. I told them to boldly pray for God’s abundance.

Believe me, it was such a moving experience to see the eyes of Jordan and Cindy shine with hope that they can actually live a happy life after all.

As happy as these 4 female friends of Jesus…

Do You Feel You’re Trapped?

Let me pick 4 of his female friends who failed big-time. They represent the crowd he hung out with. 

The 4 female friends of Jesus were a demon-possessed woman, a divorcee, a condemned person, and a prostitute.

Let’s start with the famous Mary Magdalene. 

According to the Bible, she had 7 demons in her.

The number 7 in Jewish culture is a symbol of perfection. That meant she was perfectly bad.  Perfectly depraved.

Yet Jesus made her his friend—and she became a staunch follower of Jesus and a strong pillar of the early church.

Today, you may feel like Mary Magdalene.

Perhaps you’re trapped by your own demons. By your addictions. You’ve tried everything to kick the habit, but nothing has changed. Perhaps you’re trapped by your depression, your fears, your anxiety. You feel imprisoned.

So you feel you’re beyond repair.

Listen to me. God wants to repair you. God wants heal you. In the same way He drove out the demons of Mary Magdalene, so will he drive out all that’s holding you back from your freedom.

The next person was a divorce expert.

Have You Failed In Your Relationships?

Second on my list is the Samaritan Woman with 5 husbands.

Which is worse, having 7 demons or 5 husbands? One woman told me it’s worse to have 5 husbands, because one husband is equal to 3 demons. (My personal answer: Having 5 husbands is worse because you’ll have 5 mothers-in-law.)

       Perhaps like her, you’ve suffered many failed relationships. Perhaps you cheated your spouse. Perhaps you have a broken marriage. Perhaps you come from a broken family. And you think you’ll suffer forever from your past mistakes. You may think, “I’ve blown it. I’ve missed the boat of happiness. I guess I’ll be miserable for life…”

That’s not true.

       Friend, God loves you. He wants to bless you with great relationships and great people. Because His plan to bless you is bigger than all your mistakes.

The next person was caught with her hand in the cookie jar.

Do You Feel Rejected By Others?

Third on my list was the woman caught in the very act of adultery.  They had no hidden cameras then, but they had full-proof evidence. Can you imagine being dragged into the street by a mob ready to stone you to death? Yet Jesus told those guys to take a walk. And he told her point blank, “I do not condemn you.”

Friend, you may have made a big blunder. And people look down at you. People condemn you for being foolish. People talk behind your back and reject you. 

Yet God is saying these words to you right now: I do not condemn you.  I have a plan to bless your life. 

Receive this declaration in your spirit.

Believe when the Bible says, There is therefore now no condemnation to them who are in Christ Jesus.

The next one was probably the worst of all…

God Doesn’t Focus On Your Past

Finally, the town prostitute. (Note: Some people think Mary Magdalene was this prostitute. But there’s no biblical proof to ascertain this.)

When Jesus was in a party, she gate-crashed.

The woman knelt at the feet of Jesus, washed his feet with her tears and dried them with her hair. Everyone in that party knew that the woman was a prostitute. 

They started murmuring, “Hey, is this Jesus really a holy guy? Doesn’t he know that the woman touching him is a whore?”

But Jesus didn’t mind the talk around him.

Everyone else saw who she was yesterday. Jesus saw who she will be tomorrow. Everyone else saw a prostitute. Jesus saw a woman who loved much because she was forgiven much. Everyone else saw her past. Jesus saw her future.

Friend, here’s my message: Never define yourself by your mistakes.  Define yourself by your destiny.

They Are Nameless

Out of these 4 women, only one was named—Mary Magdalene. The other 3 are nameless. The Samaritan woman didn’t have a name. The woman caught in adultery didn’t have a name. The town prostitute didn’t have a name. Why? Perhaps God is saying, “This could be you.  My mercy will give you a new future.”

That’s the kind of God you have. I repeat: His plan to bless you is bigger than all your mistakes put together.

My Experience As A Father

       One day, when my son was 5-years old, he said, “I want to cook pancakes!”

“Sure,” I said. 

Immediately, I had a sense of remorse.

Because when he ran into the kitchen, it sounded like the bombing of Pearl Harbor. The banging of pots and pans was so loud, I bet you could hear it all the way to China.

When I walked into the kitchen, I saw the chaos mentioned in the book of Genesis. Like a tsunami hit our kitchen.

There were broken eggshells all over the place, flour on the floor, spilt milk on the table. He wasted so much ingredients. He made so many mistakes.

But then again, I expected him to make mistakes. That’s key.

Today, at 9-years old, my son still loves to cook pancakes, cheese omelette, and other simple dishes. Because he’s short, he has to stand on a chair in front of the cooking range. (It’s so cute.) I’ve noticed that each time, he commits lesser mistakes. Each time, there’s lesser chaos. 

       It’s not just in cooking.

I’m a father of two growing boys. 

My sons have failed thousands of times.

But that’s okay. I still love them. They’re still the darlings of my life. And I still want them to grow up and succeed.

       Why do they make mistakes? Because they’re still growing, they’re still learning, and they still have a long way to go. I know their mistakes are all part of their growth. Without those mistakes, their growth won’t be complete.

       I love them—all their mistakes included.

God Expects You To Make Mistakes Too

I have a controversial belief I’d like to share with you: God expects you to make mistakes too.

       Do you think God is surprised that you fall?

God has made room for your mistakes.

So in a sense, He has incorporated your fumbling, stumbling, and struggling as part of His over-all plan to bless your life. By His mercy, He even uses your mistakes to bless you. The Bible says that all things work for good to those who love God. Yes, even your mistakes. (More on this later.)

       Friend, I’m not saying this as our license to sin. I’m saying this to give hope to those who think their lives are doomed because they have sinned in the past.

God Has Bigger Plans

Thirty years ago, my father had a young man working for him in his department. His name was Pio Español. When Light of Jesus began, Dad invited this young man to the prayer meeting but Pio would always find excuses not to go.

       Why? Pio, though a married man, had a young girlfriend. In fact, he had a few young girlfriends in various parts of the country.

       One day, Pio was in a restaurant, waiting for his girlfriend. But that day, he felt a deep emptiness in his heart. He felt terrible. He felt something was missing in his life.

       And then something strange happened.

Suddenly, he heard singing. It was such happy singing. He got curious and walked towards the music. He found out that right in that restaurant was a prayer meeting—a prayer meeting similar to what his boss, my father, was inviting him to attend. 

And in that room, he saw very happy people. All of them were smiling. In his heart, he began to desire that same kind of happiness.

Soon, he started joining the Light of Jesus prayer meeting.

Soon, he cut off all his extramarital affairs and won his wife back. He restored his marriage. He changed his life.

Fast forward 30 years later, Pio is our Elder Missionary to North America. Because of him, we have many Light of Jesus chapters in Toronto, Mississauga, Calgary, Vancouver, Edmonton, Los Angeles… Today, Pio preaches to thousands about marriage and family life. He is indeed a walking miracle.

       You may be like Pio 30 years ago. All you want is to be happy. All you want to do is recover from your mistakes. He never thought God had bigger plans for him.

But God did.

He will not only straighten you out. He will make you a blessing to the nations.

God Didn’t Give Up On Me

       I give this message born out of my own experience.

God didn’t want me to be addicted to sex.

       But I was. For many years, I was so addicted to porn, it literally ruled my life. It consumed me.

       So God’s Plan A for my life didn’t happen.

       But guess what: He had a Plan B for my life.

       But my porn addiction lasted longer than it should have, and so I destroyed God’s Plan B too.

       And Plan C.

       And Plan D. 

And Plan E…

       I believe I stayed with my addiction for such a long time, He offered me Plan Z. And I rejected it.

       What did God do? 

He invented a new letter for me.

In fact, He invented a whole new alphabet for me.

       Nothing I did could ever stop Him from offering me another plan to bless my life.

Today, I’m healed from my addiction.

I’m experiencing so much blessings, I sometimes pinch myself. Am I really living this charmed life? I don’t deserve this!

I Can’t Understand Why I’m So Blessed

I’m swimming in an ocean of blessings!

Today, I’m married to this wonderful woman for almost 12 years now—and we have an incredible marriage.

I’ve got two fabulous boys.

I’ve got the best family and friends one can ever wish for.

My businesses are growing.

And hey, I must mention this. I’m even good-looking. (If you disagree, I’ll pray for you less.)

Can you believe my “luck”?

And I’m serving God in such a phenomenal way.

Yesterday, I came from Vietnam and preached God’s Word. Vietnam, would you believe? So far, I’ve visited 36 countries, written 16 books, publish 7 magazines, and lead 9 non-profit organizations that are doing the craziest work for God.

Who’s doing this?

A former porn addict.

Why is this happening?

There can be only one reason: Mercy!  

I’ve approached God’s throne with boldness and received His mercy.

God Even Uses My Mistakes

And here’s the crazy thing: God even used my failures as part of His plan to bless me. 

How? Because of my failures, my preaching has become very different than what you hear from many religious people. Precisely because of my own mistakes and how God dealt with me.

Dear friend, God hasn’t given up on you.

So don’t give up on yourself. 

And God hasn’t given up on your destiny.

So don’t give up on yours!

Some of you may say, “But Bo, I’ve messed up. I’ve missed God’s best plans for my life.” I say No. Believe that the best is yet to come.

       And always remember, God’s plan is bigger than all your mistakes put together.

       I wrote a special declaration for you to say below. Say it with all your heart. Confess your faith. Let your words define your reality:

“I may have messed up, but this is temporary. I may have made mistakes in the past, but my future is brighter than my past. Today, I come boldly into God’s presence to receive mercy. I reject condemnation. Because of God’s mercy, my best blessings are yet to come. Each day is a new beginning for me. Each day, I shall live a new life. Each day, I shall live in abundance. Each day, I shall walk in God’s favor. Amen!”

May your dreams come true,

Bo Sanchez

PS.Change your financial life this 2010. Join me for my transformational How To Be Truly Rich Seminar on February 6, from 8:30am to 12noon. For more information, click here. 

PS2.Not Living in Manila? If you don’t live in Manila and can’t attend my seminar, you can get it online through my TrulyRichClub. When you become a Gold Member, you can get it free. Log on at www.TrulyRichClub.com now!

Thoughts are powerful but words are even more powerful.

I’ve written here a powerful declaration for you to say. But I ask you to say it with conviction. Confess this out loud…

“I declare I’ll have a super-blessed year in 2010! I claim a year of amazing abundance for my life. This year, I shall receive more love and give more love. I shall experience more joy, greater generosity, dreams fulfilled, financial increase, open doors, new opportunities, divine connections, supernatural appointments, great miracles, answered prayers, and exponential growth—Amen!”

       My sons love playing with clay.

       I think it’s a great toy. 

Because you can shape it in anyway you want.

My boys would ask, “Dad, make a ball!” and I’d roll it on my hands and make a ball. My boys would ask, “Dad, make a hotdog!” and I’d rub it between my palms and make a hotdog. My boys would ask, “Dad, make a donut!” and I’ll connect the two ends and make a donut.   My boys would ask, “Dad, make an Optimus Prime Autobot Transformer Robot!” and I’ll tell them, “Nah, that’s too simple for me. Here, why don’t you try it?”

Friend, here’s the truth that has been hidden from you for a long time now. Your life is like clay in your hand.

Because God has given you the power to shape your life.

And this new year is no different. 

How do you want your 2010 to look like? It’s really up to you. It’s your choice. You call the shots. You decide your destiny.

I repeat. Your life is a clump of clay. And God has given you two powerful tools to shape your life: Your Faith and your Action.

Actually, Faith and Action are one. Because the clearest expression of your Faith is when you Act on your Faith.

And you’ll discover that life—and all of God’s creation—will adjust to your Faith and Action.

How Beliefs Determine Your Reality

A lot of people have Negative Faith. And their Negative Faith creates their negative life. 

They think, “I’ve had financial struggles last year and that won’t change this year.” Or “I’ve had so much misery last year and I’ll probably have more misery this year. Nothing will change.”

One day, a friend of mine—let’s call her Negative Nina—has a headache. It’s really just a simple headache. But Nina hears these thoughts in her mind: “It must be cancer. My officemate had a headache before the doctors told her it was cancer.” Actually, the truth is that Nina has a headache because the night before, she watched too many telenovelas. That’s all. But as the days go by, her fear grows bigger and bigger.

I told her, “Nina, your body is an obedient vessel to your mind. Soon, your body may actually produce the cancer you believe you have.”

Friend, don’t be like Negative Nina.

Instead, be a person of Positive Faith.

Do you want to see financial increase this year?

Say this declaration out loud: “This year, I’ll grow my investments, I’ll pay my debts, I’ll earn much more, and I’ll give much more.”

Do you want to see your family blessed?

Say this declaration out loud: “This year, my love will grow deeper, my relationships will grow stronger, and my family will grow closer!”

Do you want to be blessed spiritually?

Say this declaration out loud: “This year, my relationship with God will be stronger. I’ll grow in trust, I lessen my worries, I’ll be less materialistic, and experience more of God’s real joy.”

       Let me now explain to you the power of your faith.

Swimming In The Dark Isn’t Fun

In an experiment, psychologists threw a helpless mouse in a giant tub of water. If the tub of water was in a windowless room, where the mouse sees nothing else but pitch-black darkness, the mouse would swim for a while but give up quickly. How quick? It drowns after only 3 minutes of swimming.

But if the giant tub of water was in a room with even one tiny shaft of light—the mouse will keep swimming for an amazing 36 hours! The difference between 3 minutes and 36 hours is hope. That’s the power of faith.

I’ve met a lot of people who are like the mouse in that windowless room. Because they can’t see a bright future ahead of them, they give up. They give up their dreams. They get stuck in their past. They feel that nothing will change in their miserable life.

You may feel like you’re swimming against the current. You may feel like any moment now, you’ll be drowning in your problems. But fear not, there’s light at the end of your dark tunnel. 

Today, God wants to give you hope. The God who said, “Let there be light” on the first day of Creation is still proclaiming to you now, “Let there be light”.

Your future is brighter than your past.

       I remember a story my mother told me a long time ago.

Put God First

And A Sale Will Be Added Unto You

Most of you know that my parents brought me closer to God in 1978. But do you know who brought my parents closer to God?

       A house. A simple bungalow house brought them closer to God. Let me tell you how it happened.

Have you ever experienced buying a shirt, a dress, shoes—and later regretting buying it? Well, it happened to my parents. Except that it wasn’t a shirt, a dress, or shoes. They bought a house and later realized they didn’t like it.

       So my mother began the difficult task of selling it. 

They advertised it in newspapers every week. 

Here was the Ad:

Nice Bungalow; 3BR, 2TB. 

W/ garage and tiny garden.

Everyday, she received 2 or 3 callers, inquiring about the house. But for some reason, there were no takers. 

After one month of no sale, Mom changed the Ad.

Nice Bungalow; 3BR, 2TB. 

W/ garage and tiny garden.

Owners desperate;

Will kill themselves if not sold soon.

Just kidding.

But Mom was really desperate. You see, she already bought another property and was paying for that loan. But she was also paying for the house that she was trying to sell. She was drowning in her debts and needed to sell the house fast.

She was like that mouse in that tub of water, wondering if there was hope for her.

During that time, Mom followed the horoscope to the letter, consulted strange fortune-tellers with really strange hair-dos, and read all the fortune cookies she could get her hands on. Which didn’t really help sell the house. But the fortune cookies made her gain 10 pounds.

But I now believe that God has a great sense of humor. Because at that exact same time, Mom was invited to a prayer meeting. A prayer meeting she didn’t want to go to. She asked, “Is that the kind of prayer meeting that’s filled with weird people that like to raise their hands and dance ‘Lululalei Lalulalulalei, Lulalulalei Lalulalulalei…’?”

No way was she going to be with these weird people!

       But desperation has a way of making you do crazy things. Because my mother was worried sick about the unsold house, she was willing to try anything. Yes, even a prayer meeting filled with weird people.

       That was how she attended her first ever prayer meeting. And she loved it. She even sang and danced right along, “Lululalei Lalulalulalei, Lulalulalei Lalulalulalei…”

Read this carefully. 

Remember how she used to get 2 to 3 phone calls inquiring about the house? The prayer meeting was a Friday night. The day after, Saturday, she received 36 phone calls!

And by nightfall, barely 24 hours after she attended the prayer meeting, her house was sold.

       What was God saying? “You put me first in your life, I will take care of your worries.”

       You may be like my mother.

       For months, you’ve been praying for a miracle. And no miracle has been taking place.

       Don’t give up. Believe. Put God first. And a day will come when you’ll see the light exploding in your darkness.

       And you’ll find out that your future is brighter than your past.

Believe That God Has A Great Future For You

       You may be like the old prophet Simeon in the Bible.

One day, God told him, “Before you die, you’ll see the Messiah.” So Simeon stayed in the Temple, praying for the fulfilment of God’s promise. He prayed and fasted and waited for the Messiah for many years. After 20 long years, Simeon became an old man. He must have wondered, “Did I hear right from God? Perhaps I made a mistake. Perhaps it was just my imagination.”

But Simeon kept believing (Faith). He kept doing what was right (Action). He kept praying in the temple.

And one day, he saw a couple from Galilee arrive in the temple—Joseph and Mary walking in, carrying their baby in their arms. I don’t know if he saw a giant red neon light arrow in the sky with big bold letters announcing, “This is the guy!” I imagine Simeon running to Mary, and lifting the baby, he says, “I can die now, for I have seen the salvation of Israel.”

Imagine if Simeon gave up. What if before the day Jesus came, he packed his bags and said, “I’ve waited too long.  Twenty years.  This is silly. I’m going to Hong Kong now and do some shopping.”

He would have missed the Messiah.

You may be like Simeon. You may be saying, “I’ve been in debt for such a long time. Nothing’s gonna change.”

“I’ve been stuck in my crummy job forever. I’ve had no promotions for 15 years now. I guess I’ll die in this job.” 

“I’ve been single for such a long time now. I don’t think I’ll ever get married.”

“My child has been rebelling for 12 years now. I don’t think he’ll ever change.”

“Bo, my husband won’t change anymore. He’s been away from God for 12 years now.”

       Friend, don’t believe these lies.

Believe that God has a great future in store for you. Believe that your future is brighter than your past. And keep doing what’s right. Keep acting on your faith.

If you’re discouraged, I want you read my last story.

She Believed Her Family Will Come To God

I met Rorie Pasimio 23 years ago.

She attended our prayer meeting carrying a heavy burden—a burden she had been carrying for many years. Her marriage with her husband Roy was breaking apart. Because Roy had all the classic vices. In my time, they called it ABS-CBN, or Alak, Babae, Sugal, Cabaret-Beerhouse-Nighclub. For years, he was drinking and womanizing. For years, he had many girlfriends. It seemed Rorie’s life was destined to be filled with pain and misery.

But Rorie had faith. She kept believing that God had a great plan for her. She believed her future was brighter than her past. 

She didn’t want a broken marriage and a broken family. She prayed for God’s miracle for Roy. But not only faith. She also had action. Because she also worked on herself.  She stopped nagging. She stopped fighting him and started fighting for him. She surrendered him to God.

God’s miracle came in the form of a sty or kuliti.

Have you ever had a sty? A sty usually stays on for a few days, perhaps a week.  But Roy had an extraordinary sty that lasted for five long months.

One day, Roy’s officemate was in the hospital with cancer. He called up Roy and said “I heard Rorie attends a prayer meeting. Can you ask her and her friends to pray over me here at the hospital?” Naturally, Roy was forced to go with Rorie.

And there, he saw them pray over his sick friend. And he saw how his friend’s face changed—from restlessness to incredible peace. 

Rorie couldn’t believe her ears when she heard Roy ask her friends, “Can you also pray over my sty?”

They prayed over him. And in 3 days, his 5-month old sty was totally healed.

And from there, Rorie invited Roy to attend the Light of Jesus. Roy said that little by little, his vices went away one by one.

Today, 23 years later, Roy Pasimio is our missionary to Asia Pacific and the Middle East. He has opened 12 Light of Jesus chapters in Hong Kong, Singapore, Malaysia, Dubai, Abu Dhabi, Australia, New Zealand…

How did this miracle happen? 

A woman named Rorie dared to believe that God has something greater in store for her. She believed that her future was brighter than her past.

This wasn’t all. Rorie and Roy have two adult children who are also serving God. Their daughter Gemma serves in Singles for Christ here in Manila and their son Tey is a nurse in America, leading one of our Light of Jesus chapters in Los Angeles.

Don’t Ask Small

       Here’s my final message.

Rorie didn’t pray a small prayer. She didn’t pray, “Lord, help me to survive this marriage.” She prayed, “Lord, make my marriage a great marriage. I want a family that will serve you. I want a husband that will serve God with me.”

       I repeat: God has a great future planned for you. So don’t pray small prayers. Pray for great ones. Expect great things to happen to you. The Bible says, Ask me and I will give you the nation as your inheritance.

Ask Him to fulfil your highest hopes and dreams! Dare to ask God for your deepest desires.  Don’t settle for lesser dreams.

May your dreams come true,

Bo Sanchez

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My mother says so, and I’ve learned (the hard way) that you can’t argue with my mother. Or you experience grave consequences.

What are the most important skills of my success as a writer? 

Two essential skills:

1.     My Writing Skills

2.     My Relationship Skills

If I only had Writing Skills but no Relationship Skills, my success would be isolated to writing. Or it would be a short-lived success.

I didn’t ask a publisher to publish my books, but even if I did—I still would have needed relationship skills. Why? A big publisher receives thousands of manuscripts from would-be authors every year. How will they pick 50 books to publish from that mountain of books? Answer: Relationship.

Unless of course you’ve got exceptional writing skills. Perhaps the publisher will notice the needle in the haystack. But if all the manuscripts look the same, the publisher will do business with someone he knows. That’s the rule of sales: The customer will buy from a friend rather than from a stranger.

How do you move from “stranger status” to “friend status”? 

Remember that as a writer, you’re not just a writer. 

You’re also a salesman.

Everyone is. And salesmen don’t sell stuff. They sell themselves first.

As a writer, I took the more difficult route of building a publishing company. 

And making that company publish my books. 

That meant working with an enormous number of people. We had to hire staff (50+ now), set-up distribution channels, buy vehicles, etc. Being a non-profit organization, we don’t have much profit to show. We do sell P75M worth of books and magazines each year, but with almost zero net profits because we give it all away.   Our real profit is the changed lives of our readers.   Again—it was relationship skills that made it all work. Great relationships with staff. Great relationships with suppliers. And great relationships with customers.

But for writers today, the world has changed. 

Through the internet, you don’t need a publisher anymore. 

You can be a one-man publisher. You can write a blog, make it popular, and build a relationship with your audience. You can give away your first Ebook for free. If it’s any good, it will spread virally. People will get to know you, email you, flag you, ping you, forward you, etcetera. And when you feel that your relationship with your readers is strong, you can start selling them an Ebook or a printed book. (How? Print it yourself or work with print-on-demand publishers).

Did you notice? It’s relationship skills again—even if it’s all digital.

My Wealthiest Mentors Are Powerful Relationship Builders

My Mentor—who’s a Billionaire—has the most incredible relationships skills I’ve ever seen. His days are filled with lunches with the key people in his businesses: (1) partners, (2) employees, (3) suppliers, (4) regulators, and (5) customers.

Oh, he has lunches with me too. I don’t fall in any of those 5 categories, but that’s just the kind of guy he is. Whenever I ask him if he’s free for lunch, his standard answer is, “I’m always free. I’m not doing anything.” Haha.

He told me a fascinating story. Whenever he sees one of his customers in a restaurant, he’ll secretly pay for their bill. (He sells office furniture, so these “customers” were the guys in the purchasing department of various companies.) That was his way of thanking them for doing business with him.

One day, he saw a guy who did business with him years ago. He paid for his bill. It was P2T. The guy “caught” him in the act and they started talking. He also mentioned that he had transferred to another company.

Two weeks later, this guy called up my Mentor. His new company needed office furniture. My Mentor sold them P150M worth of stuff! Not bad for a P2T investment, right?

Of course, my Mentor has the reputation of being the best in his industry. His products are top-of-the-line but their after-sales service is even better.

His character—plus the ability to connect—made him a billionaire.

          It’s your turn.

          Many of you aren’t increasing your wealth because you’re not increasing your relationship skills. Increase your wealth by increasing your ability to build relationships.

I Speak Forth Abundance Into Your Life

          I believe in the power of words. Words are very powerful.

Today, I declare a season of increase for your 2010.

I declare wisdom. I declare prosperity. I declare open doors. I declare divine appointments. I declare supernatural opportunities. Receive financial abundance into your life this coming year.

Say this with me, “This 2010, I shall receive an abundance of financial blessings into my life!”

I Wrote This 6 Months Ago

To My TrulyRichClub Members

          I have a confession to make: The main ideas of this article above is something I wrote 6 months ago. Each week, I write a WealthStrategies newsletter exclusively sent to my TrulyRichClub members. That means I write 52 very important articles a year for them. The piece above is only 1 of those 52 articles.

          Imagine receiving each of those 52 articles this 2010.

          To become wealthy, I believe you need to make these simple—but very crucial—changes in your daily thinking. And in your daily actions.

I want to help you make become wealthy. 

I want to help you make these simple changes in your life so that you can open yourself to more financial blessings.

          Make 2010 your breakthrough year. Grow your financial blessings this new year. Join me and become an exclusive Gold or SuperGold member of my TrulyRichClub. For more information, click on at the link below:

          Yes Bo, Help Me Make 2010 My Breakthrough Year In My Finances!

          May your dreams come true,

          Bo Sanchez

PS. I challenge you to move. To take action. To create the financial future that you want to have. Let me help you. Join my TrulyRichClub. Receive not only these articles, but a whole mountain of inspiring material every month. Click on the link below:

          Yes Bo, Help Me Make 2010 My Breakthrough Year In My Finances!

Thank you for being part of my life.

You’re God’s great blessing to me!

Thank you for reading my blog.

I especially thank you for joining KerygmaFamily.com and my TrulyRichClub.com (If not yet, please do so! Give yourself a great Christmas gift and join me now. Read my P.S. below.)

Here’s my prayer for you this Christmas…

Have a blessed Jesus-filled Christmas.

May your waistline not increase too much, but may your capacity to love and forgive grow by leaps and bounds.

          May your family and friends laugh around the table, and eat not only delicious food but also the joy of sumptuous relationships.

          May your little children experience not just new toys and new clothes but new depths of love.

            Merry Christmas!

            May your dreams come true,

            Bo Sanchez

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I simply love to write.

When I see a blank screen on my computer and poise my fingers on the keyboard—I feel absolutely wonderful. Like I’m about to give birth to a child. And when words spill from my imagination, forming sentences and paragraphs and worlds before me—I’m in ecstasy. Writing is my natural drug. It lifts me up. It transports me to another galaxy.

Preaching is my other love, a close cousin of writing.

I love preparing for a talk. I love reading a ton of books and culling the best ideas. I love crafting a message. I love choosing the best stories and weaving them together. When I create my talks—and then give it to an audience—I’m in heaven. 

I don’t get paid to preach every Sunday. Not a cent.  But I’ll do it more than anything else in the world. Each Sunday, I give three talks in the FEAST at Valle Verde Country Club in Pasig—and this is televised nationally. Thousands of people come each week because they get blessed and inspired. But I have a secret. They don’t know that I get even more blessed. Why? Because I learn more. I’m able to serve, using the core gifts He has given me. 

But I had a slight problem…

Find A Business Angle To Your Passion

          For years, I thought my writing and speaking skills were only for ministry. I never thought I could use them for business.

          So years ago, I ventured into other types of businesses to earn money. I put up a hotdog and ice cream stand in the mall, a squid ball stand on the street. I also sold memorial plans, herbal juice, and engine oil.

          All these businesses no longer exist because they weren’t my passions. When problems came up, I didn’t have the perseverance to keep them going.

          One day, I came to my senses. Why was I veering away from my core gifts?

Here’s one example: Because I know my passion is writing and speaking, I now give corporate talks and seminars. (I also created a speakers bureau and corporate training center so companies can get the best speakers for their employee training, but that’s another story.)

I had to learn how to speak in a non-spiritual setting. My message didn’t change, but my presentation did. So yes, I had to tweak my speaking skills.

Today, because I guard my time for ministry, I price myself very high so I don’t accept too many corporate invitations. I only speak in corporate settings about once a month. I like it that way, so I have more time for ministry. Companies have to pay an arm and a leg to pull me away from my ministry. I’m probably one of the highest paid corporate speakers in the country. I donate much of what I earn, so my ministry is blessed. 

More Practical Strategies At The TrulyRichClub

Friend, I want you to prosper.

And I believe the only way for you do that is to stick to your core gift.

Knowing this one thing will revolutionize your financial life!

Now I have a confession to make: I wrote the above article last year. Yes, that long. I wrote this in my WealthStrategies, a special newsletter I write exclusively for TrulyRichClub members only. I write to them each week! So I’ve already written 50+ articles for them that you haven’t even seen or read—unless you’re a TrulyRichClub member.

Each Friday to be exact, I “download” to my TrulyRichClub members very powerful, practical strategies that they can use right away to prosper their financial life. That’s not all.

I “download” to them two (2) of my best Audio Talks each month—something I call PowerTalks. I also give them for free an OnLine Seminar and great Ebooks. I basically guide my TrulyRichClub Gold and SuperGold members to the right path of earning money. (Every once in awhile, I mail them a surprise gift too.)

Let me personally invite you to join my brand new TrulyRichClub. Make it a Christmas gift to yourself.

It’ll bless you. You’ll be blown away by what you’ll receive every month.

To know more about the TrulyRichClub, click the link below:

Yes Bo, help me achieve my financial dreams. 

          May your dreams come true,

          Bo Sanchez

PS. I’m not here to change your behavior. I’m here to change your beliefs. Because if I’m able to change your behavior, I’ll be able to cause incremental growth in your life. But if I’m able to help you change your beliefs, you’ll experience quantum leaps in your financial life. To know how to change your financial life, click the link below:

Yes Bo, help me achieve my financial dreams.

So over a hot cup of brew, I got to know him more.

His name is Ammar. For several years, he ran a small business in Dubai until he shut it down to try his luck here in Manila.

I asked him, “Why did you give up your business there?” 

“It was so difficult to earn,” he said. “People became too greedy.” He talked about how everyone kept jacking up their prices every year—from landlords, suppliers, and the government itself… He couldn’t earn anymore and simply left.

He began to talk about a more peaceful time when it wasn’t like that.

“Twenty years ago, people put God and others first. Not money. When you need help, they’ll be there to help you. They won’t try to squeeze the last dollar from you. They’ll earn, yes, but they’ll make you earn too. So that everyone will be happy.”

I had to break our chat because of my work.

So I didn’t have time to tell my story. To boast, actually. 

To tell him that in my own businesses today, it’s exactly how he described it: It’s about God and people first before it’s about money. I sell stuff and my customers are my friends. My suppliers are my friends. My partners are my friends. We all earn and are happy. We don’t try to squeeze out the last Peso from each other.

But I earn very well. I have 16 sources of income. From small businesses to real estate. It’s been amazing.

Can I earn double or triple if I was greedy and thought only for myself? Yes, absolutely. But why do that? It wouldn’t be fun. I’ll always be looking behind my back, wondering who will stab me. I’ll always be anxious. I’ll be tossing and turning on bed. And I would be robbing my soul of inner peace.

For me, business is ministry. It’s about serving people.

Friend, I’d like to teach you how to make money without robbing your soul. I’d like to teach you the way of true abundance. To actually grow in your financial and spiritual life. Yes, there’s a way of becoming rich and being a wonderful human being!

How? I’m inviting you to join my TrulyRichClub.  (I’ve reworked it and made it doubly better. Find out how it can bless you two times more.)

Each month, I’ll “download” to you practical and inspirational wisdom to make you become wealthy in every area of your life. Each month, you’ll receive a constant stream of knowledge-transference from my heart to your heart.

Because at the end of the day, the biggest block of getting rich is a poor man’s mindset. Yes, I can help you gain an abundance mindset.

But I warn you that this isn’t just talk. Because I’ll actually help you earn passive income from your TrulyRichClub membership. It’s a bit too long to explain it here on this page.   If you want to know more about it, click the link below.

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Don’t miss this chance. I believe the TrulyRichClub can change your financial and spiritual life

            May your dreams come true,

            Bo Sanchez

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